There are many ways to detect if someone likes you, as they are often involuntary gestures that cannot be controlled or hidden. Therefore, we are going to teach you How our body behaves When we like someone and The 19 signs that someone likes you.
When we like someone, it is inevitable to perform a series of actions that are totally involuntary, such as, for example, act nervously or look closely to the person we like.
The nervousness and restlessness that the other person causes us, sometimes, causes talk too much and make a small clearing of throat before speaking to avoid possible stuttering.
Our body has its own reactions like a slight redness of the cheeks and one increasing sweating of the hands. In addition, unconsciously, a increased heart rate that only the person who experiences it notices.
The 19 signs that someone likes you
As we have already said, there is a series of indicators that reflect whether people like youHere we are going to list the nineteen signs of interest that do not always have to be met all at once. But to venture to know if a person is interested in us we can study these signs:
1. Permanent smile
When someone likes you, it is inevitable that they will smile constantly just because you are present. It is common that after an exchange of glances A smile appears on his face.
2. Constant attention
If a person likes you, they have their attention focused on you. It may seem like a simple act of politeness, but it is inevitable that if they are interested in you be aware. This happens even when you are not doing or saying anything that requires attention.
3. High level of kindness
Has a kindness to you that he doesn't have with others. He may be kind by his own personality, but he will increase that level when he is with you. It is proven that when someone feels cared for and attended to, he will develop feelings towards the person who shows him attention.
4. He looks at your mouth
When you are speaking it focuses on your moutheven his gaze is fixed on her when you are not talkingThis signal is quite clear. But we recommend that you analyze the situation carefully because it is true that many people are not able to look into the eyes during a conversation, so they look away to other points, such as the mouth.
5. Look for common ground with yourself
Unconsciously you will try to find similar points with you to share time or have conversationsHe will also want to show you that you have things in common and that you are compatible. With this he seeks compatibility between you.
6. Constant conversations
He wants to talk to you at any time and about any topic, so it will not be strange that often start conversations that may seem banal and meaninglessbut everything has a reason and it is that he wants to talk to you.
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7. Compatibility
Show interest in those hobbies that you have so that you have more opportunities to make plans together. In addition, he will tend to propose plans with the idea of being able to see you more often.
8. Nervousness in your presence
He can't hide the nervous expression he suffers when he's with you. This is even more noticeable when he has to come straight to you.
9. Body posture
Inevitably his body is facing you Because he seeks your attention and wants to close the gap between you, he will also tend to lean towards you and be close.
10. Respond quickly to your messages
The fact that he responds quickly to your messages means that he is attentive and is interested in having a conversation with you.
11. Compliments
In a subtle way he tries to tell you what he thinks of youThe fact that he has a good image of you causes him to unconsciously tell you.
12. Seeks to establish physical contact
As with body posture, you will try to have physical contact as a light caress or an innocent hugWith these gestures he seeks to know your reaction and close the gap.
13. Interest in your feelings
Beyond the typical polite question, he asks you how you are because he wants to know what worries you, what is happening to you, what you want and how you feel about your reality. He wants to help you in any way possible.
14. Get your attention
You can notice that it has suffered a change in appearancelike the way he dresses or combs his hair. These are gestures that show that every time he knows he is going to see you, he gets dressed up for you. get your attention.
15. Jokes and double meanings
“Between joke and joke, the truth emerges”, and that is Using this resource will let you see what he feels without doing it directly.
16. Protection
The fact that he cares for you and likes you causes him to protective spirit. In any situation of trouble or help, he will be with you.
17. He imitates you
Imitation is a reflectionso if you start to notice his gestures it is because he has been observing and analyzing you and has taken note of your movements. Sharing gestures is also an act of complicity and can be attractive.
18. Introduction into your social circle
That person likes you if proposes plans with its closest environmentwhether friends or family. What they are looking for with this is to introduce you fully into their circle.
19. Introduction into your social circle
In the same way that he wants you to enter his environment, He wants to get into yours too and get to know everyone around you.
These are the top 19 signs you can tell if someone likes you. We hope they have been helpful.
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