No one wants that feeling of «what if?» A breakup should come with a sense of closure, no matter how messy the ending was. If not, you may be stuck wondering what makes a breakup real and one not-so-definite, and how to tell what kind of breakup you just went through.
What is the real reason a guy always comes back to you for more?
Even when you feel like you had closure, there is still a chance that a guy will come back. Maybe he’ll keep texting you throughout the week, or maybe he’ll call you when he needs to make a decision about something important. So what if this is just a phase he’s going through, and once it’s over, they’ll be back together forever, rock solid, just like they hoped?
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I’m not saying you should hold your breath and wait for a guy to come back to you, but if he does, it probably shouldn’t be too much of a surprise. But even if he was expecting it, when he says he changed his mind, it can be confusing.
How do you know if he really knows what he wants now, especially when he says that what he wants is you?
And coming back to you once is one thing, but when a guy keeps coming back after breaking up with you over and over again, it can be even more confusing to deal with.
Fortunately, understanding more about the traits and characteristics of a man’s zodiac sign can help you solve the puzzle.
Chances are good that if you keep coming back, then leave, and then come back, you’re dealing with some seriously conflicting emotions.
There’s nothing wrong with not being able to admit why he finds you so irresistible, but it would be nice to know what’s going on below the surface.
By learning more about your zodiac sign, you’ll be able to zero in on some of the most likely reasons why they keep coming back to you. This will help you make a sound decision on whether to accept him or refuse to be tempted by him again and just move on.
Don’t worry, we’re here to help you figure it out.
Here’s why it keeps coming back to you, based on your zodiac sign.
ARIES (March 21 – April 19)
Courageous, leader, honest, passionate, confident, optimistic
Aries is a fire sign, which means it’s one of the most passionate zodiac signs out there. Needless to say, her fiery side can be quite intoxicating, you know, the side she only fully shows off in the bedroom.
But as for why does he keep coming back to you? It’s because no one loves like you. You are passionate and sexy, and you have a big heart full of love.
No matter how you do it, you will attract it strongly. He can’t get enough of you because he realizes that there is no one even remotely like you. The relationship you have may be more suited to something casual rather than serious and long-term, but you can’t help but smile a little when he comes back to you because he needs that great love and passion like he needs food and water.
TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)
Powerful, reliable, sensual, patient, devoted, stable
Taurus is one of those zodiac signs that needs constant grounding and support to make a relationship last long.
When he comes back to you, it’s because he sees those very particular traits within you. And believe me when I say that Taurus is very insightful. If he keeps coming back to you, it’s because you don’t see this ingrained personality in anyone else that interests you.
Of all the people he has dated and all that love has put him through, it is you who understands or contains him. You make him feel like he can talk to you about anything and that makes him feel special. You also are more receptive to your love. He really likes romance and intimacy, and instead of wanting to keep him at a distance for fear of being rejected, he hugs you because he knows you feel the same way.
GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)
Expressive, gentle, curious, adaptable, thoughtful, restless
Gemini is the kind of zodiac sign that isn’t that good at committing to one person, but when the two of them are together, there’s no denying that they have a good time.
If he always seems to come back to you, it’s most likely because you’re as close to an amusement park as a person can get.
You are a surprise and a thrill, and being with you excites him and makes him happy all the time. You also never judge, which is something he may not admit he needs, but he definitely does. He knows his commitment issues can be a headache (especially if he’s around one minute and gone the next), but having someone like you makes him feel less weird about it makes you special.
CANCER (from June 21 to July 22)
Intuitive, sentimental, loyal, emotional, tenacious, persuasive
Cancer always comes back because you make him want to take risks in love. He tends to wrap his heart in bubble wrap until he’s ready to share it with someone, but for someone who never takes chances, Cancer is willing to do it just for you (aren’t you special?).
If he keeps coming back to you, it’s because you make him want to get out of his comfort zone and see the scary parts of love as exciting and worthwhile.
What makes you so special to Cancer is that you feel like his soul mate. He’s definitely scared, but every time they’re together, contemplate what it would be like to have you in his life permanently. These little bottom dives are like practice for him. If you are patient, you will see that little by little he begins to open up to you. We cherish this period of discovery together, because it’s incredibly important to Cancer.
LEO (July 23 – August 22)
Leading, dramatic, dominant, creative, passionate, generous
Leo loves the thrill. He wants to know that the person he’s dating is up for anything, whether it’s trying a new food or going on a weekend trip on a whim.
If he constantly comes back to you, it’s because you’re thrilling him like no other. He knows he doesn’t have to ask twice for you to be put off by whatever he’s planning.
also come back because you make him feel good about himself. No, you don’t really need an ego boost, but appreciate that someone realize that you work hard at your job and put effort into your relationships and friendships. Just having that validation from someone who cares goes a long way.
VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)
Detailed, loyal, kind, methodical, practical, clean
Virgo has a tendency to let life and the world overwhelm them. Even when he tries to keep all his ducks in a row, there is the inevitable chaos that comes with life.
If he keeps coming back to you it is because he likes being with you because you are like that respite from the madness of the world; you make him feel sane when he can’t do it himself.
Virgo is very particular with the people they go out with. He knows exactly what he’s looking for in a partner, and when he can’t find it, he moves on, probably even faster than most people. You know how to shield him from the world when things get stressful and he He appreciates knowing that he can count on you in this way.
LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)
Peaceful, Fair, Cooperative, Social, Diplomatic, Friendly
When Libra dates, she does it deliberately and with intent. He’s not one to rush things, so dating him is like a long courtship, complete with shy holding hands, kisses, and those «getting to know you» dates.
When he comes back to you, chances are good that he still remembers the first time you went out together, and probably still remembers it.
When Libra keeps coming back to you, it’s because you enjoy every part of the relationship as he does. You like those awkward first dates and making each other blush as much as you like meeting their friends and sleeping over at each other’s houses. You also love deeply and with abandon, which he can’t help but find romantically insane. He is in love!
SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)
Passionate, Assertive, Calm, Leader, Courageous, Loyal
Opening up and being vulnerable with someone new is a nightmare for Scorpio. When he chooses friends, he does so very carefully to ensure that no matter what happens, they remain loyal to him. When choosing a partner, he tends to keep things casual until he knows for sure how he feels.
If he keeps coming back to you, it’s because the people he’s casually dating aren’t working out and he’s slowly realizing that you might be the one.
Scorpio loves the fact that you are so patient with him. Being honest and vulnerable takes time, but he likes to know that time doesn’t matter, only experience. Also you are open with him about your own life, showing him that love and intimacy don’t have to be so scary. You feel like his safe space for him, which is more than any casual connection can say.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)
Curious, energetic, outgoing, generous, fun, idealistic
Sagittarius is always looking for that one person who can be the other half of their dynamic duo. If you can keep him interested, Sagittarius will never leave. That said, he’s another one of those zodiac signs that like casual relationships more than serious ones, so keeping him around can be very difficult.
If Sagittarius comes back to you, it’s because you open his mind. You intrigue him with your honesty and curiosityand can’t help but come back for more.
You also help it grow (and grow). He knows that relationships take time and with you around, he feels more comfortable learning from his mistakes and not running away every time the idea of having a serious relationship enters his mind.
CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)
Practical, serious, careful, humorous, patient, reserved
Relationships are like investments for Capricorn. You’ll never see him putting time and effort (and money) into something he knows won’t last. And before you ask him how he’s so sure a relationship with someone isn’t going to last, trust me, he knows. His main goal in life is to succeed in everything he does, including his relationships, so he likes the fact that you want things to last a long time with him.
This could be said about some zodiac signs, but Capricorn knows better than anyone that relationships are no walk in the park. And if he keeps coming back to you, it definitely means something.
most likely be deep and honest with himmaking him feel like he has a deep connection with you that is based on trust and loyalty. When he knows you’re in it for the long haul, it’s hard for him to stay away.
AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)
Deep, intellectual, optimistic, romantic, calm, original
Aquarius doesn’t have a long list of things they look for in a partner. All he really cares about is finding someone he can call his best friend and his other half. It is very likely that the two of you were friends long before you started getting involved in something more romantic. Then naturally he comes back to you because he knows you will always be there for him as a friend if things don’t…