Men want to be next to a woman who exceeds their expectations in every way; that she is successful, hard-working, beautiful, educated, nice and as soon as they find one, they don’t know what to do.
This is a topic that perhaps should not be touched on today, women have fought through time to conquer a place in the world; labor, civilly, personally and it is something that should not scare anyone.
So what is behind society’s unwillingness to really accept the independent girl? FEAR. But where does the fear lie?
1.- He is not afraid to have an opinion
You have independent thinking and very strong convictions. She does not hesitate to express her perspective on things and will not be so easily influenced to change her opinion that she defends tooth and nail, especially if she does not follow her code of ethics.
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2.- You do not need anyone’s approval
Mohadesa Najumi once said: «The woman who does not require anyone’s approval is the most feared individual on the planet.»
When a woman’s confidence lies not in the approving comments of others but in herself, she is said to be a person with good self-esteem and security. Since she knows that no matter her situations, she will always find peace in herself, how does she do? that’s where fear comes in.
3.- He is not afraid to enjoy his own victories
There is no room for false modesty because she does not mind saying with all her pride that what she achieved cost her or, «it was nothing», instead of a «thank you», it is not a question of her being presumptuous, she only knows how much or little that it cost him and he says it as is. The independent girl is very honest so if she were to be modest, it would quickly be noticed that she is lying.
4.- She intimidates but is not intimidated
She is not afraid of social hierarchy, so no matter where she is, she knows that there is no better or worse person than her. The independent girl is intimidating because she can pick up on the false techniques of certain people to command respect. Only she knows that true respect is the right way to mark authority and not through bad actions and words.
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5.- You don’t need to like her
This girl has already accepted that not everyone is going to like her, but that’s not why she’s going to stop being herself, because she already knows every corner of her personality and every negative comment simply doesn’t affect her. She knows what she believes and what she is, just like that.
6.- In general, he does not need you
In short, independent girls are also looking for love in a certain way, but they know perfectly well that they don’t NEED IT, but they know that they can make it on their own.
Taken from ElAcorazado.mx and Belelú.com