The sadist. Other people try to do this simply to annoy you, to make you feel bad, by repeatedly suggesting that you are wrong.
It has nothing to do with making Swedish ears to the problems suffered by the people who cover us, but is it really necessary (and desirable) to systematically see life without light or live with what kind of people? This is how some birds of bad omen seem to think that, always attentive, always ready to offer us their lesson in the essential Apocalypse of each moment. We talked about not getting carried away by the path that the rest are going, if it is not for our convenience! But for that, we must first accurately detect their tribe of origin.
Not all toxic people fit into just one description, many people can have more than one aspect. In truth, we all have one. The thing is, really toxic people have multiples; and whoever has them all is already… aurora borealis!
Sensitive comfort for companies
Enifee understands that it is really difficult to protect the company without protecting the psychological comfort of its workers. For this, we have a sensitive comfort program for companies, created by our team of psychologists who are experts in work comfort, with a primary purpose: to help companies put the health of employees at the center of their work strategy.
Thanks to this collaboration, the managers of the human resources departments have the opportunity to receive personalized advice supported by data on how to make good decisions in a company to get the most out of the teams they lead and assume better care from the psychological tranquility of the people who carry them inside.
Types and specifics of toxic people
Victims, who blame the rest of everything that happens to them, spreading the feeling of guilt through sensitive blackmail.
Those who criticize and discredit any action or initiative that their victim has, creating a feeling of uselessness and weakening their self-esteem.
Where does this need to contradict the other come from?
This phenomenon occurs essentially in 2 stages of life: between 2 and 3 years of age and in adolescence. It happens throughout the advancement of personality, a stage where the child or young person needs to emotionally separate from the family in order to exist on their own and ratify their identity. Instead, he isolates himself psychologically and, in that space he finds, carries out his novel personality: he creates a space for himself as a subject. Finally, with his identity formed, he returns to the new set and with the ability to adapt to it without losing himself.
Frequently, this need to contradict at all times in advanced age is due to sensitive immaturity: the adult has not fully created his personality and sees in adapting to the environment or to a chat a risk to his integrity. That is, deep down he considers that if he merges with the whole he will lose himself and, therefore, he feels the impulse to ratify his identity by saying something new to what the other affirms or simply repeating the same thing in another way, to there is a different form, regardless.
Nullify an individual, toxic relationship
As in psychology we are adjusting the different nuances of personality every time, there is a huge consensus in estimating that this type of person has, after all, a toxic relationship. conduct. It is exactly this toxicity – in the guise of roughly veiled twists, assaults or manipulations – that confuses us or makes us doubt ourselves, makes us feel bad and, if we don’t stop in time, makes us shrink and hide until Let’s leave it alone, they have all the space and light they compete so hard for.
Now we have said that sometimes it is very difficult to detect these individuals, or it is not very clear if we are facing what we call a nullifying individual. If that is your case, here are 5 clues that will help you detect whether or not you are in the company of one.