Sometimes, to keep the peace, we swallow the things that bother us about our partner… Not anymore!
They say that love is blind, but the truth is that sometimes you have to be dumb toojudging by the times we have to shut up just to avoid ending up in a fight.
It is not a matter of lowering our heads like good submissive women, not at all, we simply decided to choose our battles, that is, we fight for more important things and swallow our words when it is not so seriousalthough it annoys us greatly!
Although there is also another possibility, and that is that we are not able to say anything about those things that bother us more out of pity and some regret (how muddy to make him feel bad about it!) than to avoid arguments. Has it happened to you? Maybe you feel identified with these things…
That he yells at the TV when he watches football
Surely we don’t say anything to them because it makes us feel “sinful”, they are so involved with the party, but it does make us tape their lips, the television has no ears and the announcer is not going to listen to them! They make us want to break the apparatus.
That he deny you something he has said
If we have reached the point of not telling them that it bothers us, it can only be for two reasons: either we are really bored or we are taking a Zen monk course.
That I set up a plan in your house with your family without consulting you
After a week in which you killed yourself working, doing a job, studying and taking care of the Chinese, when the weekend comes the only thing you want is to rest, but he invited his whole family without letting you know! And how do you tell him, if he will think you have no heart and hate mom.
your buddies
Separately they may be good people, but when they get together they are unbearable, they seem culicagados and you are the scolding mother… But how do you tell him that, if he adores them!
Put so much mystery on your cell phone
Simple, if you’re not doing anything wrong, what are you afraid of? Why so many passwords and anti-spyware? What is he locking himself in the bathroom for? But you don’t have to give him pleasure, that he doesn’t find out that curiosity bites you.
her little friends
Oh yes! They’re just friends, of course! Since when here men have friends solely and exclusively for friendship, that story is not eaten by anyone! But it is better not to say anything, so that no one finds out how jealous we can be, what a bear.
The lies for nonsense
Ok, one understands that they lie because they were caught with another, but that they swear by their mom that they didn’t splash the toilet and left the cake on top, that doesn’t make sense!
What bothers you about your partner? The Vibra women responded…
What bothers you about your partner and you are not able to tell him? vote here @karenvinasco
– Your heart Viiiiibra (@Vibra1049) March 4, 2016