If you are lucky enough to reach orgasm with a Cancer, you will feel what warmth and protection are at their best. With an eternal hug and a discreet moan, the Cancerian will transfer his satisfaction to you at the climax of the relationship. We are facing a sign that needs, above all, fidelity, security and affection. Otherwise, the natives of this sign will withdraw into their shell. Here are the keys to being successful with them in bed, and their best sexual positions.
How is Cancer in bed?
This water sign is among the most sensitive of the zodiac, but To prevent them from hurting him, he has built a shell that is very difficult to penetrate.. Difficult yes, but not impossible, and once it has been achieved, they have a lot to offer.
In sex, as in love, Cancer is a cautious sign, initially cold, but with potential that should not be underestimated. To unleash your passion, you need above all to feel that your lover is someone faithful and reliable.. As homebody they are, the concept of a stable love relationship is something important, and even more so the concept of family. From these values they develop the values of protection and affection. So making love to a Cancerian is the culmination of building affection, sincerity, and Love in capital letters.
In bed, to open the shell we must be patient and attentive. Caresses and touch are an essential element, because to the extent that a Cancer feels caressed and loved, he will abandon his closedness to give free rein to passion. Let’s not expect from them, despite everything, a wild sex without limits. But yes, a total connection in a pleasant relationship whose culmination we will reach through patience, stimulation and the continuous demonstration of affection.
For Cancer, the best way to reach orgasm is in a calm and staggered way, with an «in crescendo» that is reached jointly and in traditional positions on the basis of security. The most important thing for them, in fact, is not the orgasm itself, but the foreplay (they love oral sex and masturbation) and the process of reaching climax..
The 3 best positions in bed if you are Cancer
We have already seen what Cancerians are like in bed and what they need to climax, now let’s see what are the best sexual poses for Cancer.
1. The lotus flower
Undoubtedly one of the best sexual positions for Cancer because it allows the complete bonding of the bodies, converting the individual bodies of both into a single unit to build a pleasant relationship together. There are many variations of this position, but the classic one is that the man sits cross-legged and she straddles him with her legs behind him..
Also, for example, they can intertwine, also passing his legs behind her. In any case, in this position, penetration occurs, during which the movements are short and rhythmic.
This is a very pleasurable position for a Cancer for several reasons. First, because of the feeling of sincerity and honesty that you feel with your partner: Both, face to face, look at each other and exchange words and gestures of complicity. Second, because at any moment she can hug and kiss her lover, brush her back with the tips of her fingers, caress her chest, lick her neck, but always with the security of protection and direct connection.
In addition to combining passion and romanticism, the lotus flower even has a mystical, esoteric point, because with the union of their bodies in this position lovers feel in a special connection outside of space and time.
2. The Amazon
A more heterodox variant and one that supposes an increase in experimentation in a Cancer is the Amazon. Nor should it be exaggerated, it is just a variant of the lotus flower with an innovation: it is done on top of a chair. But the execution of the position is very simple and will not cause you any headaches or loss of your feeling of comfort..
The man should sit normally on the chair, while the woman will sit astride so that the penis slowly penetrates her vagina. In this case, the fact of doing it in a different place, and the hard support of the chair that makes the penis go deeper into the vagina, multiply the excitement of Cancer. In addition, that frivolity of the chair is combined with the protection and security that the hug allows while penetration occurs.
In this case, the woman takes the initiative, and that will be a point in favor for Cancer women, as it is a symbol that likes to take the initiative and woo. As in the previous position, the man can stimulate erogenous zones such as the neck or the nipples, so that the woman feels fully stimulated and reaches orgasm more easily.. The electricity of the looks will do the rest.
3. The magic mountain
One of the protection postures par excellence, somewhat more laborious than the last two. One of the most original ways to do it is to put several pillows on the bed one on top of the other, until you manage to lean on them with your back slightly arched. The man will get on top of you fitting his body with yours in exactly the same position as youthat is, facing the same direction, with his chest against your back, also kneeling penetrating you from behind while hugging you.
It is an ideal posture for Cancers because it is the perfect metaphor for their sign, the crab. The man forms a shell under which Cancer is found, with all its tenderness and magic, enjoying penetration while feeling the connection with her man, who embracing her in this way gives her security, warmth and pleasure. Her comfort means that both of them are not in a hurry, and even less so the Cancerian woman, who, secured by the arms of her man, feels relaxed to enjoy her until she reaches a full and pleasurable orgasm.
When the relationship of trust has crystallized to the limit of mutual pleasure, the shell can open and the man will straighten up until he reaches the classic doggy position, making the penetration even deeper.