No one can expect absolute emotional consistency from a friend or partner, but chances are you may notice patterns of moods and behaviors over a longer period of association.
While it can be tempting to throw up your hands in frustration at frequent mood swings, it’s more productive to take the time to understand them on a deeper level. After all, much of life’s intrigue and meaning stems from the apparent dualities and contradictory traits of nature, be it good and evil, happiness and sadness, victory and defeat, etc.
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A quick and effective way to gain a deeper understanding of the nuances of a loved one’s personality traits is to consider their date of birth, astrology, and zodiac sign.
Each of the 12 zodiac personality traits has corresponding strengths and weaknesses that reflect the dualities inherent in each person’s nature. You can look up which zodiac sign corresponds to people close to you to get a better idea about the dual aspects of their personality and check their compatibility with your own sign.
Here is the most contradictory trait of each of the zodiac signs and their two faces.
Aries (March 21 – April 19)
The Greek god of war, those born under the sign of Aries are ambitious, energetic and passionate in everything they do. They refuse to accept failure and have the willpower to keep going until they achieve their goals.
However, that passion and energy can sometimes turn into general anger and irritability if things or people get in the way of what they want. Since their patience is often short when there is something to accomplish, Aries are not known to be good listeners or empathic conversation partners and often interrupt others to impose their own ideas on the situation.
Therefore, it is important that an Aries learn to deal with this side of his personality to avoid unnecessary and counterproductive confrontations. If an Aries is able to control the aggressive side of him, he will be seen as a natural leader and role model and will find great success in whatever he chooses.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
As the astrological equivalent of a bull, those born under this zodiac sign go ahead and move forward no matter what load they can bear.
They are reliable, hardworking and stable over time. This makes them excellent companions, as they are steadfast in their fidelity to their loved ones and are an incredible source of strength within the family.
The increased chance of monetary success that comes along with Taurus’s impressive work ethic isn’t bad either. Naturally, these amazing qualities are also accompanied by potentially negative reflexes.
While a Taurus is in it for the long haul, that also makes them inflexible and possibly overly demanding, either of themselves or those close to them. They are not known for being successful at compromising or thinking quickly to resolve a difficult situation.
Instead, a Taurus prefers to stick with what has worked in the past, which can work both for and against them depending on the situation.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
As the nickname suggests, it can be hard to know what you’re getting when dealing with Geminis for an extended period of time.
You may initially be attracted to the light and friendly atmosphere they exude, and it’s common for a Gemini to have wide social circles. They are a reliable choice for a travel companion or someone to share an adventure with, as their open-minded and positive attitude will never hold you back.
At the same time, Gemini also has a hard time holding back and tends to float with the wind, so to speak. They generally lack a strong sense of responsibility and may not be there when he needs them most.
Be wary if any misfortune befalls a Gemini enough to affect their mood, as you’ll be observing firsthand their darker twin aspects, such as depression and anxiety.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Since calling someone a Cancer has taken a darker turn in our day, let’s call those born under this astrological sign the Crab a little less insulting.
Contrary to what you might expect, Crabs are not moody in the least, but they are often the most empathetic and emotionally supportive of people. They constantly give of their time to others and causes they believe in and will continue to give relentlessly due to their generous and caring nature.
However, this enhanced emotional sensitivity also causes Crabs to take things much more seriously and judge themselves more harshly than others, making them more susceptible than average to depression and mental instability. .
Cancer is an amazing friend or companion, but it’s important to be aware of the limits of their energy, as they will continue to give you and care for you until they run out and end up in a dark place.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
While an Aries achieves his goals through sheer force of will, a Leo seems to find success in everything he tries effortlessly. Leos are natural leaders, as their competence is matched with equal measures of confidence and charm.
On the other hand, it’s easy to perceive Leos as arrogant and full of themselves, even superficial at times. Without a humble perspective of their gifts, Leos could turn people away with their selfish behavior.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
If you’re forced to describe Virgos in one word, it’s probably analytical who decides. Excellent problem solving and highly logical thought processes are trademarks of the Virgo brain, making them perfect to fall back on in a pinch.
But don’t expect Virgos to be the life of the party, as they find it difficult to open up to others and take the blows. They require as much structure in their lives as they do in their minds, making them seem unreasonably distasteful to other people’s spontaneous ideas.
Virgos have to make an effort to get out of their heads and relax their critical standards to overcome these aspects of their personality.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Libras represent balance in all things. As such, they are perfect to turn to during stressful times, as their inherent kindness and peaceful nature make them very stable and comforting. However, just as life isn’t always in balance, Libras can’t keep things in balance either.
Situations can go unresolved for long periods of time because they seek to avoid confrontation no matter what, and it’s also easy for Libras to take advantage of them if they don’t develop the ability to defend themselves.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
Scorpios are well known for their intelligence and wit, and can brighten up a conversation with a verbal combat partner thanks to their sharp wit. As best friends, Scorpios surpass other signs in loyalty and dedication.
However, like the scorpions for which their sign is named, scorpions have a strong defense mechanism if they feel threatened. They will not hesitate to plan detailed and elaborate revenge if they feel wronged, and they have no qualms about manipulating others to achieve such ends.
As such, it’s advisable to stay on the good side of Scorpio or else you might end up feeling its sting.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Those born under the zodiac sign of Sagittarius tend to enthusiastically follow their interests wherever they lead. This results in an exciting life that, if guided properly and with a good stroke of luck, serves as a source of inspiration for others and gives Sagittarius opportunities to explore their passions.
However, without some external limitations, Sagittarius is prone to fluttering around without establishing roots or building a solid foundation for the future. Without a clear goal or direction to go, it’s easy for a Sagittarius to lose sight of where they are and seem to be constantly starting over.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
Capricorns are known for their high motivation to always do their best and keep going until the job is done.
Thanks to their intelligence and strong practical sense, Capricorns often find success in life. They are also known for their honesty and integrity and make great leaders due to all of these qualities.
But just like other leading signs on this list, like Aries or Leo, Capricorns tend to let their talents go to their heads and can push people away due to their arrogance and sense of superiority over others. As with Leos, high pride serves as both a motivation to succeed and a barrier to accepting help and ideas from others.
It also pays to stay out of Capricorn’s way when they’re in the middle of something, as they tend to get annoyed by disturbances and aren’t afraid to show it.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
If you meet someone new and walk away thinking you’ve just met a really fascinating person, your new friend is more likely to be an Aquarius. Known for their intellectual diversity and sense of wonder at the world, it is common to find Aquarius traveling the world and pursuing a variety of interests.
These qualities make them very diverse, interesting and often very creative people. These positive traits also come with the downside of callousness and unavailability, as they often appear distant and not deeply involved in the emotional side of human behavior.
It takes effort for an Aquarius to develop an emotional awareness to go along with their advanced practicality.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Another emotionally generous yet vulnerable sign in the Cancer line, Pisces is one of the best friends and partners thanks to its kindness and loyalty. They will go above and beyond to ensure the safety and happiness of their loved ones and will give without expecting any reward.
As before, this generous nature also casts a shadow of doubt and can lead to burnout and negative moods. Because of this, Pisces generally need more alone time than others to recharge and get over their more negative thoughts.
It is the dualities within the nature of each person that enrich our lives and help us appreciate the good times while being able to overcome the bad. Therefore, it is worth being aware of the different moods and actions of those close to us, since a proper understanding of the richness of life experience…