Love is something that must be cultivated and demonstrated day by day.regardless of whether or not there is a special date, such as your wedding anniversary or Valentine’s Day.
And yes: love is not only limited to relationships, as there is love between parents and children, siblings, friends, and even your pet can awaken that deep feeling in you.
But romantic love, that of a couple, is the one that is usually the most complicated, because it is not easy to find the right person and because, once you find it, the challenge of keeping that love alive arises.
For this reason, below you will find a series of ideas, with simple but very significant gestures and details, that you can carry out to pamper your partner.
You can apply them at any time, even if there is no special reason or date, just for the pleasure of letting that person know how important they are to you, to show them your love and make their day better by drawing a smile on their face. .
1. Leave him a special surprise. Whether it’s in her bag, briefcase, in the drawer she uses, or in a place where you know she’ll see it for sure. It can be a chocolate, his favorite candy, the fruit he likes the most (if he’s on a diet), a drawing you made, a flower or whatever you know he’s going to love. Accompany the surprise with a note containing a dedication of love or an inspiring message.
2. Cook something especially for him or her. What better way to pamper your loved one than to dedicate part of your time and effort to prepare the dish or dessert that you know they like so much, and then share it and enjoy it together. A type extra is that you prepare that special meal in the morning and surprise your partner by taking breakfast in bed; or if you prefer the night, accompany the moment with candles and music for a very romantic dinner.
3. Send her flowers. It does not matter if he is a man or a woman (yes: men can also send flowers, and surely many will love the detail), give him the surprise of sending a bouquet or a floral arrangement to his work. And if you know that your partner is not very fond of flowers, you can send an arrangement of sweets, a potted plant, or use a food delivery service to send him lunch or that dessert that he loves.
4. Give him a day off. Love is not being stuck all the time, nor doing everything together. You and your partner need to have your own space and time to do things alone or with your friends. So you can choose a day for each one to go out separately with their friends or to dedicate it to what each one chooses. If you have children, find a babysitter so they can enjoy themselves without worries.
5. Dance to your favorite songs. If, due to your daily activities, you haven’t gone out to dance and have fun for a long time, take a break without leaving home. Make a playlist with songs you both like, put play, turn up the volume and invite your partner to dance with you. In addition to the fact that it will be a nice detail, it will be fun and the dance exercise will help them release the stress of everyday life.
6. Send her unexpected text messages. The tone of the message depends on the personalities of both and how they get along in the relationship. It can be a loving message, you can let him know the things you admire about his personality or recognize the achievements he has achieved and fill you with pride. And if you feel more daring, send him a suggestive message and sexy.
7. Give her a relaxing massage. When you know that he had a hard day, at night before going to sleep, take the initiative to pamper your partner with a relaxing massage. Choose an oil with a pleasant aroma and let your hands work on releasing the tension in his muscles.
8. Share your passions. Maybe your partner loves to go for a run or do yoga, but you don’t; or while she has the gift of dancing with ease, you have two left feet. If there is an activity that your special person loves but that you don’t like or are not given to, make an effort and accompany her a few times to do it. But do it with pleasure, to enjoy her company and offer her yours, because if you go with a bitter face, it doesn’t count.
9. Do something together for the first time.. Sure there are things that neither of you have experienced, or at least not together. Find something appealing to both of you and invite your partner to do it together. It can be a parachute jump, a balloon ride, a boat ride, climb a mountain, go camping, run a marathon, get a tattoo… the possibilities are many.
10. Talk to your partner. Do you remember when you and your partner started dating? At that time they could spend hours just talking about anything, and it was just those casual chats that helped them get to know each other better. How long have you not talked about things other than work, household expenses, children, etc.? Take at least a moment each night to talk with your loved one about anything. Turn off the TV, cell phone and computer and get to know each other again.
With information from Fatherly