Have you ever wondered why your relationship kind of stagnates and doesn’t progress? We tell you the signs…
Sometimes you feel that your relationship has reached an impasse, where you can’t advance or follow the development that you expect or the one that logically follow all relationships, such as getting married, buying a house, having children, etc. At that moment you arrive at a crossroads divided into three paths: either you pedal so that the relationship progresses, or you don’t give it more energy and you separate, or you resign yourself and you stay forever where you are.
But, How to identify if your relationship has stagnated and is not progressing? With these these signals:
everyone gets married except you
When you notice that all your friends are going to the altar in line or “organized” with partners with whom they have much less than what you have with yours. And if you are in a free union and nothing to sign papers, don’t even say it!
Priorities don’t match
For example, if you are saving to buy an apartment or a car and he suddenly gives you the surprise that he had a Jacuzzi installed in the patio with that savings.
They always have an excuse to say «no»
A clear sign that your relationship is not progressing is when both or one of the parties always has an excuse for not doing things. For example, “we can’t get married until we buy the apartment”… “We can’t order the son until we have saved his college money”, etc.
You don’t remember when they did something different
Your relationship has become a perfectly choreographed routine, in which the same thing happens every week, every day at the same time, to the extent that you even repeat the same positions, in the same order, every time you make love that they have permanently scheduled in the calendar).
They do not agree
It is normal that we have differences in the couple, they even say that the poles attract and complement each other, but when your relationship has reached a point where they do not agree on absolutely anything, not even on things as silly as what to have for lunch today , and those disagreements cause a fight, it is a symptom that progress is what there is not, because, how do they advance if each one rows for his side?
Do you feel identified with any of these? signs that your relationship is not progressing? Share this note on the networks and tell us your story in the comments.