detect a manipulative man, it is simpler than you think; it is only enough to be very attentive to those minimum signs that warn you that something is not right; since this type of men maintain that manipulation profile, to control her at will. For this reason, if you suspect this dominant behaviorbe careful!; because it could lead to psychological and social problems. Find out below what are the signs that betray a manipulative man, take note!
According to studies, manipulation is said to be accompanied by two main actions: emotional blackmail Y mental exploitation. These are adapted to different behaviors that work together to be able to carry out these actions, among them are:
The tendency to lie the manipulative man cannot live without the need to lie at all. He uses this defense mechanism, with the purpose of justifying his actions and staying «good», no matter who he hurts. Many women recognize this flaw in their partners; however, most turn a blind eye.
The Flattery: flattery is typical in the manipulative man, he knows perfectly how to make her feel special and important; taking advantage of his weaknesses to get some benefit. Behind a compliment, there is a hidden intention!
Influence your decisions: The manipulator will look for any way to prevent you from doing what he does not want you to do, for example, if you want to go out with your friends, he will quickly play with your mind by telling you that he is afraid of losing you, that he does not trust the people around him. around and prefers him to stay at home. You innocently obey, and he wins!
He acts offended: It is the best way that the manipulative man has to get away with it when he is discovered in the lie, takes a victimized attitude and even reproaches the person affected by his attitude with false arguments. He does not admit his mistakes, and looks for culprits to justify his actions. He appears to be «hurt», to achieve his mission.
Blackmail:We could not forget the classic blackmail! This method is used by the manipulator when he has detected that you are tired of his attitude and have decided to end the relationship. In this case, he will want to remind you of all the moments lived; and he will exclaim the fact of not being able to live without you and will even insinuate that he will end his life for such a situation.