If the tusa is giving you a hard time and they are thinking “I should get back with my ex«, wait! You should consider a few things before making the decision.
Few things hurt us as much as ending a relationship. Even those who finished can go through a period of spite that for our mind is like a duel or what we call «tusa».
Should I get back with my ex? 5 things you should think about before
Although they say that second chances in love are doomed to failure, the truth is that it depends on each situation, the history of the couple and the moment each one is living.
That is why here we share some things that you should think about before making a decision like this. Unfortunately we cannot give you an exact answer, but you will have 5 key points to reflect.
It may just be effects of loneliness
After learning to live as a couple, it is very difficult to get used to loneliness. Before returning with your ex, it is advisable that you seek company, lest it be that you did not need to return with him, but only not to be alone.
Going back may not be as romantic as you hope
Many of us would like the return with an ex to be like in the movies: him chasing a plane with the ring in hand, the church ready and a sign that says I LOVE YOU.
The truth is usually more boring. They should go to therapy to agree on the new terms of the relationship, because if things continue exactly as they were, they will most likely end again.
Both must forgive and FORGET
In words it sounds very easy, but try to do it in real life, that’s where things start to get difficult. It is not going to be that at the first discussion the reasons why they ended come out. Are you ready for both? And your couple?
Let it be for love and only for love
Many couples try again for a number of reasons:
- Children
- what will they say
- family pressure
- Fear to fail
- Economic interests
Well, we tell you that the ONLY motivation for which you should return with your ex-partner must be LOVE and nothing more than that; otherwise, failure will always be just around the corner.
Let it be reconquest and not blackmail
Sometimes people say or do things so that others do what they want and for this they emotionally blackmail; that can happen in a not so obvious way.
If you go back to that person because they make you feel guilty, don’t do it. If they win you back, valid, but check your heart very well, that you are not giving the arm to twist by insistence or pressure.
And you do you think? Do you believe in second chances in love? Write what you think in the comments of this note, and share it on your social networks!