Andropause is considered as the second puberty of man, but in this case, instead of increasing male sexual desire; this decreases it, like other organic functions. When the man goes through this stage of «second adolescence» a kind of emotional confrontation often begins, in which feelings of shame and frustration take over the couple’s moment of intimacy. How does this condition affect men?
For you to understand a little better, this natural process is characterized by lowering the normal levels of testosterone (male sex hormone) in the man’s body, therefore, this condition influences the sexual performance of the affected person since those who suffer from it do not manage to have or maintain an erection for a long time. It occurs mostly in men between the ages of 30 and 60, however, andropause can occur at an early age; reducing the sexual potency of the man and altering his psychological state, without affecting the ability to procreate.
How does andropause affect my husband? Well, it is extremely important that you remember that this condition is a natural process that is part of man’s aging and in which many physical and emotional changes will take place. Below we will describe each of those signs that may indicate that your partner is going through andropause.
Regarding physical changes: the low level of testosterone will cause muscle weakness, bone deterioration, reduced sexual potential, decreased strength and quantity of ejaculate, dry and wrinkled skin, night sweats, increased cholesterol, among others.
When we talk about emotional changes: we mean that this condition normally affects the affected person’s self-esteem, since the man feels incapable of pleasing his own desires and those of his partner during the sexual encounter, which attracts feelings of anger, insomnia, frustration, shame and even depression.
Is there any treatment? How can I help you? Among the main treatments are intramuscular injections, consumption of oral medications and application of gel to the abdomen and shoulders; all these with the purpose of replenishing the missing testosterone. Therapies to regulate testosterone levels may be an option, however, the size and condition of the individual’s prostate need to be considered, as many of these procedures stimulate cancer development.
To help your spouse go through this difficult step, the support and knowledge that you must have on the subject is considered essential so that the affected person does not have to face this alone. Imagine that if you find the fact that the sexual encounter is not optimal frustrating, for your partner to have to be aware of this, it is even more difficult to assimilate. The support towards your partner will solidify the union between you and thus you will be able to enjoy a life with total normality.