Although they say that a liar falls faster than a lame man, sometimes men know how to hide their lies well without us detecting them, however, we have the solution for you to catch it once and for all.
Thanks to science, recognizing a chronic liar is now easier than you think. If you already suspect that he lies to you frequently to begin with, you just have to pay attention to his vocabulary to confirm it.
the researcher Janine Driver has dedicated himself to studying male behavior for years and managed to compile the 7 words and phrases they use when they lie. If you catch your partner in a strange situation and when he tells you what happened he uses some or all of them, you should be alert.
1. “But”
The expert assures that by using this word, they try to downplay what they hide. «I know you may be confused, but…»
2. «Never»
This is the main one! Feeling cornered, they believe that using it instead of «NO», reinforce what they are saying.
3. “By the way”
This phrase works as a «buffer» and they use it to minimize something they want to mention, but without giving you too many details. When you listen to her, pay special attention to what she says afterwards, the confession will be «hidden» there.
4. “Why would I do something like that?”
Driver assures that they use it to turn the matter around and make you doubt their behavior.
5. “That/That”
“That woman is completely unknown to me”, to cite an example. What happens is that this word helps them to create a certain distance between them and the lie.
6. “I left/I abandoned”
Usage in certain contexts can mean a lot. If you notice that he uses it in a strange way, he may be hiding something. A clear example “I left work at the usual time”instead of saying: «I left work at the usual time.»
7. “Gentlemanly” responses with a sarcastic tone
If when you ask him a question, he answers with phrases like «Yes, my queen”, “Of course, princess”and he never does, there is no doubt that he is hiding something.
Now we are going to listen carefully to what they tell us to see if they are lying to us.
Taken from Report XXI