Have you ever walked into a room and felt heavy or dense energy? From an energy perspective, this happens because all human beings are interconnected and each has the ability to perceive the frequencies of others.
It is said that you should choose the people around you wisely because their vibration will affect yours. If you can perceive something pleasant or unpleasant from whoever sits next to you at work or on the street, imagine the energy exchange that occurs during sexual intercourse. It’s not uncommon for people to feel drained, «dirty,» or just plain uncomfortable with themselves.
These feelings can arise for personal reasons, such as one’s own insecurities, egos, and hurts, but they can also have to do with sexual energy that is unconsciously shared with another.
It is scientifically proven that people emit an electromagnetic field that plays a very important role in understanding biology and the interconnection shared by all living beings.
If you have sexual relations with someone, you must not lose sight of the fact that it is an act that connects you physically in the deepest way possible. That is why the other person’s energy, by circulating in you, «manifests» in some way. If this energy does not correspond to what you want or feel, or if you are not sure who it belongs to, it is likely that you feel the need to «cleanse» yourself and separate yourself from that energy.
If you are with someone who has been intimate with 10 people in the past and that person has not cleared themselves of the energies of their former sexual partners, you may be susceptible to the energies of those 11 people (your partner and their exes).
Sometimes after having sex with a new partner, people feel «different.» This is because your aura connects with your partner’s during sex and they exchange energies with each other, so their energy is often slightly different.
If you have sex with someone with a vibration that has nothing to do with yours, incoherent or unhealthy energy ties arise. It is not about whether the person has a high or low vibration, but whether or not it has to do with you and in what way, something certainly difficult to know without knowing the other.
Sometimes people use sexual intercourse to fill an unhealthy need or fill an emotional void by projecting a fantasy onto another. There is something not clear, not said or not conscious between both parties. On an energetic level, this non-concordance produces those sensations of «strangeness», emptiness or loss of energy.
However, any feelings of guilt, discomfort, or rejection is ultimately a product of the ego that makes us judge ourselves for our actions. Experiencing guilt after sex is also a feeling perpetuated by society.especially in relation to women, as society has repressed and discouraged female sexual energy for a long time, and still does in some parts of the world.
So you can take these feelings as a sign that maybe you shouldn’t sleep with that person again, but also you have the opportunity to take responsibility for your feelings and look within.
You may wonder if this negative emotion has something to do with an unhealed wound, your partner’s energy, or social pressures. Currently, the social pressure is enormous and it goes in all directions: it is censored if you have a lot of sex and many sexual partners, if you are monogamous and do not have enough sex, if you are celibate or any other behavior.
The truth is the social trends of the moment should not be the parameter to identify and meet your true needs. Although everyone can be susceptible to the opinions and energies of others, at the end of the day everyone can control their own frequencies and decisions, but to do so it is necessary to look at what affects your energy and emotions in the first place.
You are much more than your physical body and sex is much more than two bodies colliding for pleasure or reproductive purposes. Sex is also a way to deepen the inherent connection between people.