Depends. The answer to how to treat your partner after infidelity is different if you put the horns or they put them on you.
For anyone, whether in a marriage or dating, infidelity is one of the most difficult tests which we have to face.
There are differences in how to treat your partner after infidelity
And the main difference depends on whether one is a victim or victimizer of the horns.
if you were unfaithful
- Accept the consequences of your actions.
- Stop denying it and «holding on» to the lie, that shows that you do not respect your partner.
- Do not justify yourself in the defects and mistakes of your partner, because you are humiliating who loves you.
- Ask for forgiveness sincerely and without tantrums, remember, you are NOT the victim.
- Reconquer your partner from scratch, as if you did not have a relationship with her and you were falling for her for the first time, regardless of whether she forgave you or not.
If they gave you horns
- Don’t even think about retaliating, you’ll end up worse off.
- Don’t confront the mistress, that’s lowering yourself to her level.
- Avoid finding out the details of the infidelity, that will only serve to make you feel worse.
- Be reserved and do not tell everyone about your situation, some people are not empathetic and could make you feel worse.
- Play indifferent, ignore him, because if you look for him, he won’t have to lift a finger to get you back and he won’t value you if one day they come back.
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With information from: Self