Breaking up is hard. It doesn’t matter who is taking the last step or why; It’s just not something anyone wants to deal with.
However, if you’re ready to end the relationship but aren’t entirely sure what the best approach will be, astrology offers some help.
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Here’s how to break up with someone according to their astrological sign to help ease the pain of separation and leave a feeling of at least kindness and fairness that honors the affection you once felt for each other.
Aquarius (January 20 to February 18): Aquarius will want concrete reasons for the breakup. In other words, «it’s not working» is simply not good enough. Aquarians have a constant need to understand why, so you’ll need to be prepared to answer all the ins and outs of why the relationship isn’t working, when it stopped working, what can be done, what wasn’t done, etc.
Pisces (February 19 to March 20): If you want to end it well with the fish, you might want to suggest a date where you have time to share how you feel about the current state of your relationship. Since the fish are so receptive, even if they have not rationalized it, they surely already know that something is very wrong and that «we need to talk» will serve as an emotional preparation beforehand. Pisces is kind at heart and won’t want to make you feel bad, but they may cling to the past through material memories left over from the relationship. With Pisces you should not leave room for doubt or «maybe later» because they will believe it and they will wait for you and playing with the fish is cruelty that makes you a terrible person.
Aries (March 21 to April 20): Straight-firing firecrackers, Aries don’t take excessive or wordy excuses too kindly. Whether you break up in person or over video (text breakup sucks), your Aries ex is likely to be dismissive and quickly break off the dialogue. So don’t try to justify or smooth over the situation. Aries gets angry quickly, but just as quickly they move on and they don’t want to waste more time than necessary in suffering that may not last long.
Taurus (April 21 to May 20): The bull has to do with justice, logic and practicality, so it is important that they see conviction in your words and that it is noted that you are being 100% honest in the intention to end when expressing why the relationship is not it worked. They will not be happy with your decision; however, they will not judge you or hold a grudge against you.
Gemini (May 21 to June 20): Twins are persuasive, so you need to be sensible when ending the relationship. Gemini is a great negotiator and she will use that strength to reach a new deal or consensus in the way of relating so that the couple can continue despite the fact that you no longer want anything else. Make sure to say peace and then move on.
If not, they may lure you back in with their compelling charm.
Cancer (June 21 to July 22): Oh how the sensitive crab will ache after a breakup! This is why you have to prepare for tears and even possible pleas to make the relationship work. If there is no going back in your decision and you have already thought about it very well, you must arm yourself with strength and cut the ties as clearly as possible and without leaving any hope. If it is not clear to them that love is over, it is possible that they are appearing in your life through uncomfortable messages or calls.
Leo (July 23 to August 22): breaking up with a Leo, you may need a lot of courage. It is really very difficult to break up with the «king of the zodiac.» The best approach is to be direct and honest.
The heart of the lion is so noble that it can be easily hurt; however, they will want to know why the breakup is occurring so that they can learn and improve in future relationships. Therefore, he tries to provide you with valuable information on how to improve in the future, but without reproaches.
Virgo (from August 23 to September 22): A Virgo can be really surprised that you are putting an end to the love affair. That’s because they love taking care of others, and when that’s threatened, they feel completely out of it. You must make them feel that they were a guide on your way, thank them for all the good things they did for you and let them know why you need to move forward, thanks to the same teachings that you acquired in that commitment. That gives Virgo some consolation to end the relationship on a good note.
Libra (September 23 to October 22): when breaking up with Libra, you have to be rational. They like to hear all sides of the situation and don’t want to hear why it’s their fault it didn’t work out. If you take a balanced approach, come up with concrete and compelling reasons, and don’t put all the blame for the failure of your relationship on them, you may still be friends.
Scorpio (October 23 to November 21): With scorpions you should not do anything suspicious to break the relationship. They can see through your lies and track what you’ve been up to. They will know even before you that you want to end the relationship or that something is wrong with you. If you truly feel like this relationship needs to end, it’s important to remember not to let the temptation of sex draw you into her arms again or you’ll never get out. Do not accept «remembers» or «tuch and go». Not even for the good times. It’s their way of prolonging unnecessary agony.
Sagittarius (November 22 to December 21): adventurous and spontaneous, it’s best to break up with Sagittarius when outdoors, like in a park or during a walk around the neighborhood. What Sagittarius will expect from his partner in the last moments of the relationship is that you be real with them. If you do, there will probably be no hard feelings and they will want what is best for you. But honesty above all!
Capricorn (December 22 to January 19): Capricorn, often sheltered, can put up a fight when you try to break away. That is why it is important that you defend your position and that you share how much you have enjoyed the relationship and what it taught you. You must let them know that it is not personal and you must show your face to do it. A breakup is as intimate as starting a relationship. If you don’t approach the moment properly, you will regret it in the future.