They say that everything enters through the eyes. but, this time the men confess the opposite, because for them an attractive woman is one who listens to them and attends to them.
That’s right, according to a study, published in the Bulletin of Social and Personality Psychology, published by Time, what matters most to men is that we pay attention to them. Namely, The best way to reach your boy’s heart is by showing him how much you care about him.
According to the study, men feel more sexually attracted by women who respond to their needs, that is, who are aware of their feelings and thoughts and act accordingly. They assure that this is because this type of attitude is more feminine for them.
The curious thing is that with women it is not the same. The study says that when men are the ones who react to each of our needs, we tend to think that they are planning something, or that they want to achieve something sexually.
On the Jezebel website they make fun of the studio, for its obvious sexist overtones, and recall a publication in The Toast where different images of “women listening to men in the history of art”. In addition, they emphasize the urgent need that some men have to feel heard by women.
We could also point out that the results of the study complement something that the history of society has already shown, and that is that many men still believe that women should be at their service. Because of course, when it’s the other way around, women feel surprised and suspicious, as it is due to an abnormality in male behavior.
But do women want to be aware of the needs of men and listen to everything they want to tell us?
Source: Report21