A breakup can feel like a part of yourself has been smashed and stomped into a million pieces, and the recovery time often seems to drag on and on.
There are some exes that no matter how hard we try, we can never completely get them out of our system. We obsess over them, cyber stalk them, and maybe try to stay friends with them so we can have some connection to them.
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According to astrology, there may even be times when your ex comes back into your life.
This is often the case during certain retrogrades, especially Mercury and Venus retrogrades.
When that happens, can you forget the problems your relationship had in the past and give it another try to get back together, or would it be a cold day in hell before you get back together with an ex?
This is whether or not you would get back together with an ex, based on your zodiac sign.
Aries (March 21 – April 19)
The most likely way to get back together with an ex is if they have already started dating someone else and rekindling that relationship was a challenge for you.
If they are depressed and obsessed with you, you couldn’t be less interested because where is the challenge? You like the chase and if there isn’t then it’s not that interesting for you.
Now, you’re not above sex with an ex, but that would be just for fun, not for anything long term.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
It probably took you a long time to get to the point where you were with someone, so the breakup must have been painful and surprising.
You’re not going to want to experience that kind of pain anytime soon. Once trust is broken, it is virtually impossible for you to make the same mistake again.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
You probably didn’t want to be in a committed relationship in the first place. They did you a favor by breaking up with you and now you have time to explore all the other options you felt you were missing out on when you were with them.
You’ll want to stay friends and keep them on your guest list, but chances are the romantic part of your relationship is over.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Most likely yes, totally, when can they get back together? You never got over them and you have been praying that your ex saw the mistake of breaking up.
You need a partner to feel grounded and like someone is there for you at all times. You need a sounding board and, moreover, you are someone who likes to be in a relationship.
How quickly can you change your status back to «in a relationship»?
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
They will have to humiliate themselves a lot for you to give them a second chance, especially if they broke up with you. Your pride won’t let them into your fabulous world anytime soon. You hope they will regret their bad behavior and see how empty their life is without you.
You think the best way to get over a past relationship is to find someone new and you have your choice of potential partners. You’ll be sure to post all the fun you’re having on social media to make your ex suffer.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Maybe you’re willing to give your ex a second chance, but maybe not.
What are the statistics? Have they gone through a major change or are all their personality flaws still intact? Do you think things will continue as before?
You are already seeing your relationship as one of your failures and you would rather not repeat the mistake of trusting them again. Your relationship is broken beyond repair and it would only lead to frustration trying to mend it.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
You are willing to meet as long as it is not too stressful or complicated.
However, if your ex treated you like shit, you will never forgive him and there will be no chance of you getting back together. You like things to be peaceful, but that doesn’t mean you can’t hold a grudge like a boss.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
If your ex cheated on you and/or lied to you, there is no chance of reconciliation.
But if they didn’t and they still had great chemistry, then yes, they would be open to getting back together. Plus, they already know what to expect and that goes a long way when someone is as intense and passionate as you are.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
No, you will stop getting back together. It’s about moving on and meeting new people. You have your own moral code and chances are it has been violated.
You are not worried about feeling lonely, you are sure that you will meet someone pretty quickly. You wish them well, but you’re not going to dwell on what could have been.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
You may be willing to get back together if your ex is willing to do the work for himself and your relationship. Maybe some couples therapy first? You’re going to need to take things slow and make sure it’s the right decision to get back together.
Once your ex has proven himself, then move on to the real work. It will take a while for them to feel like a couple again and they will be on the lookout for any signs that they are reverting to their old ways.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
Getting back together with an ex seems incredibly counterproductive to you. Why would you repeat something that didn’t work in the past? It’s time to move on and move on.
Maybe you would like us to be friends, but you’re over them. If they were to get back together, there would probably be a lot of emotion and crying and you don’t have the means for that, not now, not ever.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Your thing is second chances… and also third and fourth chances.
In fact, you’re so willing to get back together with an ex that it’s like you have amnesia and can’t remember why the two of you broke up in the first place.
When he regains his memory, he will rationalize the reasons why things went wrong. If they deceived you, you will convince yourself that they have changed; if you were not happy in the relationship, you will imagine in your mind how different everything will be.