You ask yourself «how to know if i’m the other“? Here we give you the answer. And if you are in this situation, get out of it once and for all! You are worth a lot.
Some womanizing men tend to have several romantic and/or sexual relationships simultaneously, but they do it relatively head-on, that is, the others know that they are the lovers.
However, many maintain these other relationships not only hidden, but with such elaborate deceptions that the other woman believes that she is the only one. We don’t know why men do this, but we do know how to catch them.
How do I know if I’m the other? These are the attitudes that give him away
1. He avoids formalizing the relationship
You have been together for a long time, he is affectionate and seems to be very much in love with you, however he constantly avoids taking the next step and putting a name or label on the relationship. For you they are boyfriends, for him they are friends with rights and nothing more.
2. He only looks for you “for that”
Sex is like the glue that unites the members of a couple, that’s why it’s very important, but that he only and exclusively looks for you for that is a clear sign that you are not his priority.
3. He never holds your hand in public.
This signal is key; one can hook up or even hug other people with whom he has no relationship, but shaking hands is socially recognized as a typical gesture of couples, that’s why he doesn’t do it with you in public.
4. He usually secretly talks on the phone
You will never see him taking the phone to talk in front of you, because in most cases he will do it locked in the bathroom or even outside the place where they are, even if he has to leave his own house.
5. He hasn’t introduced you to his social circle
If he hasn’t even introduced you to a single friend (much less to his family) and you’ve been together for several months, hey, surely he won’t because they know the officer. And yes, it’s not you.
Do you feel identified? Batteries with that, the best thing you can do is face it and if you are sure of your suspicions, end that relationship right now! The world is full of men who will know how to really value you.
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