When we talk about seduction we are not only referring to the love plane. Seductive people are seductive in all facets of their daily lives: work, family, friends, etc. although they may use their seduction skills more and better when they want to achieve something specific.
The specialist points out that those who are seductive “are attentive to what they usually like, they detect what works and what doesn’t with that person. They even laugh at themselves or at the situation, but never at the other. Logically the seducer is a bit of a peacock: he only unfurls his beautiful tail when he has detected someone who, perhaps without his knowing it, has previously seduced him”.
In this sense, Cahue point out 5 characteristics of seductive people.
1. They are observers: “The seducers do not usually enter ‘in a bag’. They take some time, even if it’s just a few seconds, to analyze who they want to seduce. With the data they obtain they start their game: if they see that you are careful with your appearance, they will tell you how well you look; if you have beautiful hair, they will tell you and praise you for your good work; if you are a communicative person, they will ask you to be with them. Once they have opened the doors of our self-esteem, then they begin to present their strengths”, said the expert.
2. They let the seduced person feel seductive: «That is, they allow the other person to take the initiative to approach them once they have discovered those wonderful points,» explained Mila.
3. The seducer handles physical distances with great success: The psychologist pointed out that a seducer “usually holds his gaze for a few more seconds. It seems as if he has great interest, but not more than necessary, which could be intimidating.
4. You can give some light touch: It can be in the hand or on the shoulder, and it does it in a gentle way that isn’t uncomfortable, he said.
5. Asks and is interested in the other person: «Although in reality they are only interested for a few minutes,» he is always interested in what the other says, the expert asserted.
Source: Report21