Many girls believe in them and, believe it or not, boys do too. But do soul mates exist or are they a fictitious way of being a couple?
Legend has it that souls were perfect and remained in that state in eternity, however, at some point they began to divide into twoone half lives in a man and the other in a woman.
It is because of that these two halves spend their whole lives looking for each other and until they meet they will not reach fullness and much less happiness.
Thinking that soul mates exist prevents you from being happy in love
“Believing that you can find your soulmate or that you are already with her is one of the reasons why you will never achieve a happy and lasting relationship.”
Explains Lawrence R. Samuel, author of the book Sexidemic: A Cultural History of Sex in Americaon the Psychology Today portal.
And it is that the myth of souls predestined to be together can make you think that love is something that is not in your handsand therefore you have no control or responsibility over it.
On the other hand, every time you are in love, you are much more likely to get disappointed at the first problem with your partnerbecause everything should be perfect, and we know that it is not.
In conclusion, you will never find that being simply because it does not exist; love is not something predestined, but something that is built every day, with mutual effort and respect.
What do you think? Do you believe in the existence of souls predestined to be together since before existence or that love is created day by day in the relationship? Write what you think in the comments of this note.
Share it! In this way you will open the eyes of those friends who still believe that they will find their soul mate one day.
With information from: Psychology Today