Sexual energy, like any other energy, moves people from within and must be used responsibly. People carry an important charge of energy wherever they go, they leave their mark, they have an impact on their environment and on those around them, so it is not a surprise that your sexual energy also radiates to others and vice versa.
Have you ever thought about it? The orgasm has a purpose beyond pleasure, and that is to release the contained sexual energy, because just as there is sexual energy that flows, there is sexual energy that is blocked.. If you are looking to have a new partner, you must prepare for it, with the necessary cleaning to be a better version of who you are and what you want to project to others, even sexually.
There is clean sexual energy and dirty sexual energy, but it is not a moral categorization, what it refers to is negative energy or charged with negativity. When you share your sexual energy with someone, you also share them. fears, bad habits and toxic behaviors. There are people who are much more open or receptive than others, who are negatively affected in a more profound way.
Much more information is shared through sexual relations than you imagine, and it can stay with the other for a long time, so it is necessary to unlock and delete it from time to time. Here are some ways you can do it:
The meditation
This exercise provides multiple benefits. The power of the mind over the body is undeniable, and that is why there are meditation exercises focused on cleaning and releasing sexual energy. There are meditations to clean each chakra, to return to the other what belongs to it and keep what is yours.
We share a simple way to do it. First make a count of the sexual partners you have had, say their name out loud and while you do it tie a knot in a red thread and repeat the phrase «Nothing of you in me, nothing of me in you. Thank you. Peace.» . You must repeat the phrase every time you tie a knot, every time you mention a name. When finished, light the candle and burn the thread. Offer a positive thought for those people. Stay in meditation for a few minutes. At the end you will feel much lighter and at peace with your past.
Crying
Crying has a purifying effect, which you have surely experienced after doing it. Many times, what follows crying is a smile, because that oppression in the chest turns off happiness and tranquility. On numerous occasions, you have so much negative energy contained that the only way to get it out is with tears, until you are at peace.
the cosmic egg
Taoist women used to practice with a jade egg, which they inserted into the vagina to perform contraction exercises with the vaginal muscles, which improved their health, not just sexual health. The vaginal canal is full of nerve endings and reflexology points, and the massage stimulates different organs of the body that heal and invigorate it. To clean sexual energy, an obsidian egg is recommended, which is used to heal the memories of the female genital tract. Obsidian helps to undertake the «journey back home», to the earth, to the body. It works on a mental, physical, emotional, energetic and spiritual level.
The egg also stimulates and channels sexual energy as it activates the energy of the Kundalini serpent, that is, the power of sexual energy. It nourishes all the chakras and broadens both intuition and awareness. The kundalini is for many a portal to the elevation of consciousness. It is born from the first chakra located at the base of the spine and when it is awakened, it rises like a snake through the other chakras and generates changes and spiritual evolution.
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kundalini yoga
Practice this meditation to balance your lunar centers. In addition to toning the ovaries, your aura will be cleansed of the energy of your sexual partners. Face down, place your legs together and stretched out, with the arms at the sides of the body and the palms of the hands facing up. Rest your chin on the floor, with your pubis pressed into the floor. The eyes are closed, while you breathe gently. Repeat the mantra «Sa Ta Na Ma» in your mind. For each syllable, touch your thumb with your index (Sa), middle (Ta), ring (Na) and little (Ma) fingers. Do it for 12 minutes and offer it to your intention to purify your sexual energy.
You can use music with this mantra to support you during meditation.
Vaginal sprays or baths
Vaporizations for women, with hot water and medicinal flowers, is another good option. You only need a small container that supports the temperature of the hot water. Once the mixture that we will share below is prepared, place it just below the vagina. Remove your underwear and wear a long skirt to concentrate the heat. Sit in a comfortable posture. The easiest is to bring your knees to the floor and sit on your heels. Separate the knees and place the container under the vagina.
In the case of men, you can take a tub bath, which also works well for women. To do this, you need to prepare a tea with arnica (reduces inflammation, helps you come back to yourself), chamomile (calms, apapacha), rosemary (natural antibiotic, heals the interior), Santa María (calms physical and emotional pain), calendula ( repairs tissues, heals wounds) and basil (reduces inflammation and heals the soul).
Bring this mixture to a boil with enough water. Meanwhile, prepare the bath tub with hot water and mix the water with the tea. Turn off your cell phone, light some candles and incense, and enjoy a good time for yourself. At that moment, seek clarity to close the cycle that is ending and give space for what is to come. It also works to do it with gourds, if you lack the tub. The intention is to clean or purify sexual ties with partners from the past.
At the time of taking the step to a new relationship, the book The alchemy of love relationships, by Joseph Michael Levry, will guide you on the right path. The author reveals spiritual principles that will be useful for you to build, consolidate, and maintain a loving and healthy relationship.