That one does not choose who to fall in love with? Cart! Learn NOT to fall in love with someone with these tips…
When there is no relationship to comply with the rules that society dictates to have sex, the obvious thing is to find a partner to practice it. The means to achieve this are far from new and are as old as reproduction itself, but the channels are modernized every time and today it is possible to square someone from Tinder, Match or other apps via smartphone.
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The big problem experienced by a good number of people who practice casual sex is not prejudice, but a feeling of attachment that is born after a night of physical contact and a lot of sex. As soon as you open your eyes in a strange bed, it is normal to want to run away and end the meeting; however, more than half of men and women in this situation feel an involuntary and subsequent attraction to their causal partners, regardless of whether they seem boring, unpleasant or even ugly.
Why does sex create attraction between people?
A bar at midnight becomes a huge laboratory of sex and physical attraction. Men and women unconsciously analyze each other and look for an attractive partner to go to the next level, establish physical contact and get carried away by instincts until breaking into desire. In common logic, we think that sex is the consequence of falling in love and intense attraction, but science shows that the situation is exactly the opposite.
This is confirmed a study by the biologist and anthropologist Helen Fisher, specialized in research on the origins of love from science. According to Fisher, who works by analyzing a species of field rodents that exhibit monogamous behavior and attraction similar to humans, sex works as a mechanism that perpetuates the species and generates a bond of fidelity and belonging through two hormones: vasopressin and oxytocin, the true responsible for love.
How to avoid falling in love with someone?
The results of the study showed that the actions that stimulate vasopressin and oxytocin in mammals are the responsible for getting ‘hooked’ after a night of sex that wasn’t even the best. Once these hormones take over the brain, an adrenaline rush similar to that caused by cocaine use causes empathy and longing for the immediate sexual partner. It is an explosive cocktail of neurotransmitters that could be the key to understanding love as a chemical reaction that takes over the mind.
The first and most important action of avoid to skip the stimulation of these hormones is eye contact. Sex causes an involuntary connection if it comes from being face to face. Not only that, the levels of oxytocin produced by looking into the eyes of someone attractive are heightened during a sexual relationship, where the gestures of both generate a hypnotic trance that establishes an intimate contact and forges intense connections between two people.
A powerful and intimate act among mammals is the stimulation of the female breast and nipples. Like no other part of the anatomy in both sexes, this region of the female body is vital in the accelerated production of oxytocin. Fixation on the breasts and nipples is an instinctive characteristic that develops during the lactation period. Nursing mothers and suckling babies create endless neural connections, affinity and protection motivated by contact with the breasts. Fisher’s research suggests that this is an intimate act that, beyond any moral issue, occurs between two closely linked people and reinforces sentimental ties, hence be a behavior to avoid if what you want is a night of sex without major repercussions.
The last strategy so that a sexual outing does not go beyond pleasure and concentrates solely on desire without involving feelings is depersonalize sex and ignore the qualities of the partner in turn. It may seem like an absurd ordeal and a brake to give free rein to enjoy every sensation of the body and the person’s moisture, but concentrating on another person and letting yourself be carried away only by your own pleasure works to avoid falling in love.
Despite the intensity of emotions during sex and the complicity in achieving pleasures, it is possible to get rid of postcoital crush by following the above recommendationsBut first and foremost, the best advice is to be prepared for the post-intimate hormonal barrage and recognize that the person you woke up with doesn’t have the characteristics your brain attributes after a night of wild sex.
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Taken from: culturecollective.com/ Alejandro Lopez