Every one of your relationships crashes and burns every time you think you’re getting closer to being loved. It hurts when your partner suddenly decides that you are not the right person and disappears forever.
It’s disheartening, to say the least, when you go to all the effort and really put yourself out there, only to find that instead of «your person» in the world, you’re in heartache and pain.
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Now, you know you can have an amazing life when you are completely single and that you don’t need anyone to complete you, it’s just that it’s annoying to constantly find out that you and your potential partner were on two completely different pages.
You like to have fun, but just once would you like to experience true love and know for sure that your feelings were returned.
When you’re one of the zodiac signs that can’t find love, It can affect your self-esteem and confidence. If you’re the whole package, why don’t you ever get the kind of love you want?
You want to know what you have in you that scares people and what you are doing wrong. Love shouldn’t be so difficult but for you, it seems impossible.
You may not have a clue why you’re so unlucky in love, but astrology and even a look at your daily horoscope may hold the answer.
Here are the zodiac signs that can’t find love and how each sign has its own way of repelling true love.
ARIES (March 21 – April 19)
Aries, your level of interest is extremely short. You can feel completely captivated by someone and then completely bored. It’s not just about people; they are activities and passions.
Not every moment in a relationship is fun, but you have to get through it to get to the good stuff. You get bored too easily and then lose what little patience you have left. When you get anxious, you become reckless and impulsive, and suddenly you’re breaking up with someone you thought might be the one.
TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)
Most of the time, Taurus, you’re a perfectly wonderful person, but sometimes you can be a beast. He tends to be rude and completely oblivious to other people’s feelings.
Then there are the times when you are stubborn and possessive. You won’t listen to reasons or see things from another person’s perspective, and your potential partner feels that you don’t care how they feel and you won’t make any compromises to improve your relationship. You need to deal with your control issues before you can engage in a loving relationship.
GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)
Gemini, you suffer from FOMO, so as you get close to making a commitment, you start to wonder if you’re making the best decision. What if someone else is a better fit for you, or if your partner can’t satisfy you sexually for the next forty years?
You would hate to decide on someone and have it backfire on you. He tends to be unclear about what he really wants, so he gets in the way. You might go through the motions of looking for love, but if you really do find the perfect person, you panic that you or they weren’t good enough.
CANCER (from June 21 to July 22)
You don’t just wear your heart on your sleeve, Cancer, you wear it all over your body. You are very sensitive and tend to make people feel like they might unintentionally upset you. You are an emotional minefield and tend to deal with things emotionally rather than logically.
It’s great that you’re in touch with your emotions and empathetic to the feelings of others, but you need to develop a thicker skin. People need to feel like they can be themselves without worrying that they might inadvertently upset you.
LEO (July 23 – August 22)
Leo, you’re amazing, but you always ask yourself, «Why can’t I find love?» The thing is, having a relationship with you can be exhausting. You want constant praise and attention, and when you don’t get it, your ego gets hurt.
You should realize that you don’t need anyone else’s validation. You can still thrive even if you don’t get the attention you think you can’t live without. You know how to act confident, so all you have to do is believe it.
VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)
You have very high standards for yourself and others, Virgo, and you wonder why every time you’ve had love, it gets out of hand. The truth is, it is very difficult to be in a relationship with someone who has a black belt in finding fault.
No one likes to be judged and criticized, even when asked for feedback. It’s not dishonest if you tone it down a bit and give them constructive criticism with a slight hint of positivity, instead of criticizing them for their faults and failures.
LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)
You want to believe it when someone says they love you, but they don’t. Suspicion, Libra. It’s not that you think you’re unlovable, it’s that you have a deep-seated insecurity.
You like to test people to make sure they mean what they say when they declare their love. But how many tests do you have to do before you believe what they are saying? Because most of the time, people get tired of trying to prove their love and just walk away.
SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)
You seem to turn smaller problems into something bigger, as you are very confrontational and combative. Not everyone is willing to train with you. You seem to find confrontation energizing and stimulating, Scorpio, but that’s not how your partners feel, they feel attacked.
Your intensity is powerful and amazing when it’s positive, but when it’s not, it’s a little scary. Your high drama tends to scare off potential partners. You have a lot of charm when you want to, so focus on making people feel comfortable, without fear for their lives.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)
Listen up nervous pants, not everyone agrees with your no-compromise philosophy, Sagittarius. To get the ultimate love, you will have to make some compromises and do the work that is expected in relationships.
No one is saying you can never travel, it’s just that you need to make spending time with your loved one a priority and you can skip the city when things get serious. You know that you enjoy the romantic and fun side of love, you just need to embrace the other parts as well.
CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)
You must let your guard down or no one will be able to see your vulnerability and who you really are. Capricorn, you are so afraid of being scammed or romantically hurt that you seem very rigid and defensive.
It tends to not work when someone tells you to relax, but maybe you can fool yourself enough to relax and let someone in. You are very lovable and deserve love (as do all of us), but if you keep shutting down someone trying to get close to you, you will have a problem.
AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)
If only you could be in love with someone and have them love you without having to confess your love. Aquarius, you’re not exactly comfortable with feelings, but love is a very strong emotion that practically demands to be expressed.
You can’t expect someone to love you if you don’t let them. The more you work on being able to manage emotions, the closer you will be to being able to have the type of relationship you have dreamed of having.
PISCES (February 19 – March 20)
You’ve spent so much time in love/fantasy mode, you can’t even recognize love when it’s right in your face. Love isn’t how romantic comedies present it: love is messy, defiant, and sometimes downright annoying.
The secret is that when love is wonderful, there is nothing like it on earth, and it is all the irritating and tedious parts of love that make the rest so glorious. Take off your rose-colored glasses, Pisces, and you can see the unexpected ways love is amazing.