Many reasons to love Gemini men
Gemini; a name beginning with the word gem; and indeed they are. Men or women, the zodiac sign Gemini truly shines within the constellation of the zodiac.
They are vibrant and energetic people who light up a room when they walk in. And that’s what draws people to most Gemini men: their lively nature; the lively and utterly charismatic energy that reverberates through its surroundings.
It may seem like a stretch to use this word, but for some evolved Gemini men, they have an aura about them.
Think of as many Gemini celebrities as you can: Morgan Freeman, Johnny Depp, Kanye West, Tupac… all of these Gemini men are very confident men who live life with a certain style. Those are the most captivating qualities that Geminis have, that attract many women.
Gemini men have many other qualities that make them irresistible; his eagerness to constantly learn and grow, for example.
Gemini men are literally the opposite of aesthetics. They are dynamic individuals who constantly reinvent themselves. They are the true believers in the phrase, «never say never» and continually amaze themselves and others with the new horizons they reach in terms of knowledge, action and experience.
This core quality of inquiry leads to other attributes that make them attractive. In their search for knowledge and new experiences, Gemini men are often creative individuals who love to make a difference in their surroundings. They make sure they add value to whoever they are connected to and their attitude is contagious.
Many times, having a Gemini partner means that you finally learn to be much more spontaneous and adventurous than you have ever been.
Understanding Gemini Men
But not everything is rosy with Gemini men. Maybe as long as they’re just friends with a Gemini man, things are fun and perfect. But as soon as feelings of love and affection begin to develop, trouble eventually arises in paradise.
Understanding the intricacies of a Gemini man is crucial if you are the woman who has fallen in love with this charming man and wishes to make him yours.
Gemini is ruled by the planet Mercury, which represents energy and vitality. This is where they get all their spontaneity and enthusiasm. Just like Aries and Sagittarius men, Gemini men are life explorers and while these other zodiac signs might be very inclined to explore in the literal sense of the word, like travel, for a Gemini, it goes much further. there.
Gemini men are seekers of knowledge and new perspectives that come with it. They are committed to lifelong personal growth and development, and reaching out for new challenges to overcome. This is why you will find many Gemini men so successful with their careers in the spotlight. They strive for success and fame.
Even for the so-called average Gemini man, who hasn’t been blessed enough to be a celebrity or a super-rich industrialist, he prefers to spend his time reading books, watching new genre movies, etc. things that stimulate his senses and give him the satisfaction of expanding his horizons.
A woman looking to make a Gemini man fall in love with her and stay with her should not interfere with his quest for knowledge and adventure.
For the most part, Gemini men are cold people.
Geminis are usually laid back and can let things go easily, whether it’s a break up or a heartbreak or any other animosity that comes their way. This is because Geminis always have too much at stake in their lives to sit around and waste time wallowing over a little mishap. Yes, a breakup could be a «small» thing in the larger scheme of life for a motivated Gemini man.
However, if Gemini men have built up a reputation for jealousy in love, there might be some fire in that smoke. We’ll get to this in a moment. But the general rule of thumb is that Gemini men tend to be really cool people who know how to quickly let go of any negativity in their lives that might get in the way of their learning and achievement.
The other thing to know about Geminis is that they are not big on chases. If you find yourself at a party and see a group huddled around a man talking passionately about something, there’s a good chance he’s a Gemini man (unless he’s a Leo or Aquarius).
Gemini men have the advantage of being charming men who can command attention in the blink of an eye. Therefore, most of the time, a Gemini man tends to be surrounded by many dedicated women. This is also partly because flirting is in the nature of Gemini men. Obviously, then, if a woman tries to play hardball for too long, she is the one who stands to lose in the love transaction. Instead of trying to chase her down, a Gemini man will shake her off and carry on, and he’ll probably never think about it another time.
So why do Gemini men get jealous?
You’re probably already wondering why men who are so charming about themselves that they get so much attention from others feel the need to be jealous. Aren’t others supposed to be jealous of them? Yes and no.
Inside, each Gemini has a completely different story. The greatest strength of most Geminis is the gift of small talk. They are extremely good communicators. However, they are not always the best at pouring out what is on their hearts too well. It’s not that they can’t, it’s that they choose not to. They carefully select what they show of themselves to the outside world and this often poses a problem in their relationships, possibly even a breakup.
Gemini men are also frequently questioned about their ability to remain faithful to their partners. And while there is some truth to this statement, declaring that all Gemini men are unfaithful is over the top.
However, the truth is that Gemini men are slow to commit. The reason for this is this: Gemini is a mutable air sign. This imparts to them an almost desperate need for freedom and space. For most women, it is difficult to meet their needs.
Sometimes these Gemini men will make a mistake and enter a relationship they are not ready for, and then feel suffocated and want to rebel, which often leads to resorting to infidelity. These complexities, along with others, create a confusing labyrinth of emotions in Gemini men, which when left unsorted, produce jealousy and other related negativities. We will continue discussing this later.
chele blame the duality of the Gemini personality
Geminis are the true manifestation of split personality syndrome. No, I don’t mean that Geminis are all crazy neurotics. The duality of personality in a Gemini is a very normal everyday character attribute. It has its advantages, of course.
This personality trait contributes greatly to his charisma. Most Geminis can literally say, «I can do both,» like Aquarius, this makes it difficult to categorize them as a certain type which in turn creates a very intriguing personality mix. In reverse, however, this leads to contradictory behavior that often creates all the trouble in your love life.
A Gemini man can be in one mood one moment and act completely opposite the next. This contradiction extends far beyond surface level mood issues to deeper core values and principles as well.
At worst, a Gemini man can be considered hypocritical in the way that he can change his belief system with a change in situations. For example, a Gemini man is extremely protective of his need for freedom and space, so a needy, clingy woman is the type of woman he likes to keep away.
However, the duality of his personality is that he often acts exactly like this. Being social, Gemini men crave attention and validation from others. This includes your partner as well. If you ignore doing that for your Gemini man for too long, he gets anxious. This leads him to question your affection and loyalty to him, which in turn leads to jealousy.
Another personality flaw in Gemini men, as mentioned above, is their inability to be completely honest and transparent with their feelings and emotions. For Geminis, eternal social adulation comes at the price of sometimes lying to themselves. They are often guilty of creating an image for the outside world that is attractive and suitable for pleasing others. This often creates a vacuum within them. The stress of always maintaining a polished image becomes difficult to manage at times, and they face insecurities when it comes to revealing their real identity.
Many women, who have had Geminis as their boyfriends or husbands, have cited falsehood as a reason for their breakup. At this point I suggest you also read: The fidelity of the Gemini man
Meaning that your Gemini man is jealous
Gemini men are a proud bunch. This is what stops them from trying to chase women, and this is what stops them from telling you when they miss you. It’s that very insecurity of having to bare it all that makes them hesitate.
This is strange because Gemini men are extremely vocal about things. They are constantly making jokes, flirting smoothly and scaring others with their opinions and points of view. And they are also as shy as Taurus.
When they are in love, as long as it is an empowering kind of love, they can look you in the eye and tell you so (if in doubt, I suggest you read: Methods to know if a Gemini man is in love). In fact, it’s not uncommon for Gemini men to write pages of poetry (no matter how bad) confessing their love for you. But the moment there is a sign of weakness, they go into defensive mode. They would rather part ways than become lesser human beings in the eyes of their mate.
Weakness in itself should not be considered a sign of failure; And by trying to hide it, Gemini men end up faking it in their relationships. So how do you find out when your Gemini man gets jealous, when he’s not ready to tell you?
Look for these signs:
1. He will constantly check on you: This is not in his normal nature. But if the man who usually gives you all the freedom suddenly controls you, he is jealous of something.
2. Often in a bad mood: If the normally lively Gemini man frequently snaps and mumbles reluctantly, it is a sign that he is jealous.
3. Start setting limits: A Gemini man understands the value of a social life. So if he tells her you can’t be friends with someone or sets a curfew, he’s definitely jealous.
4. Start setting limits on himself: Jealousy and fear of losing you can cause a Gemini man to change his own habits as well. If he willingly cuts his own party hours, he might be…