Today you finally go to the party of the group of friends where you know he will be there, the man you have been wanting to see for a long time. Ever since they warned you, you’ve been a little nervous.
You have been preparing for a few days, but you do not know very well what you have to do or say to get their attention. How can you show the best of you? Here are some tips that may be useful.
Choose your way of dressing well
The first impression often counts. Do not clash with the general character of the party, or excessively striking views. Adapt to the style of the celebration, but giving yourself some distinguishing features. Some good sandals, for example, some earrings or some accessory that you know looks good on you (a good bag, a necklace). Choose a color that suits you, according to your skin and hair type, take care of your hairstyle and above all… Smile!
Do not rush
As much as you want to go to him, control your first impulse. Let the party take its course, let people get excited and its development puts you at the right time to talk. Do not go with a preconceived idea, let the meeting be natural and the conversation fluid.
Show yourself in a group as you are
The best way to show yourself is by being natural. Trust yourself and your qualities, and show yourself as if you weren’t there. After all, sooner or later he has to meet you and know how you are. Better you know from the start. Your sympathy will be your best weapon of seduction. Ralph Waldo Emerson said: «Self-confidence is the first secret of success.»
Take care of body language
Many times you can talk with the body, with the body posture, with the way of expressing yourself and conceiving yourself. Do not express rejection out of modesty, better adopt a relaxed and relaxed posture. Keep in mind that you are in a moment of leisure, not in a level test. Don’t act like you’re in an executive meeting, but don’t go on a rampage either. Surely you know how to differentiate the context and act accordingly.
Leave room for improvisation
If you take everything very well thought out, in the end something will be out of the script and you will not know how to act. Our advice is that you know how to adapt to what happens, that you take the pressure off yourself. If you don’t see that person you’re attracted to today, surely you have another chance. The best thing is that you enjoy the party and let everything flow naturally. I’m sure you appreciate it.
And you? What other tips would you give to attract that person you like?