Being single is complicated in a world designed for couples. Outings, promotions, vacations and dinners, everything is planned to be done in pairs, or to make sure we meet someone right away. Single girls have to hear phrases every day that pressure them and drive them crazy.
«How come you haven’t gotten married?» It’s the question everyone, everywhere, is asking. It is as if there is a plan that has not been fulfilled.
“If you want to get dates, you shouldn’t eat so much candy”: If your friend looks at you furious, it is because although your intention is good, she understands that you tell her that she is fat and that is why she is alone.
“You shouldn’t be so picky”: Trust that your friend knows what she wants for her life and accepts that, even if she has a hard time finding it, settling for less will not make her happy.
“There is a man I want to introduce you to”: You say it, and she thinks: «What a nightmare!». Single girls hate blind dates because they fear their friends will introduce them to their boyfriends’ loser friends. Will they be right?
«That man can’t be that bad, give him a chance»: If your friend tells you that she had a really bad date because he is mean, rude, or self-pitying, believe her that she did and don’t ask her to go through that again.
“I wish I were single”: Your friend knows that it is not true, even if family life does not give you rest or your partner forgets the date of your birthday.
“You can always try dating services”: It is a very personal decision that you should make without pressure.
“Being single you have much more freedom to use your free time”: She is an expert in that art, believe it.
«Really, will you go out with those clothes?»: You criticize this outfit for being too formal, and surely another friend points out to her when her clothes are too daring.
“When you least look for it, it will appear”: This sentence makes me look puzzled. After all, you keep encouraging her to find and meet guys.
Source: De10.mx