Far from thinking that it is the worst that could happen to us, we must take things differently. Perhaps accepting that our happy ending has nothing to do with a conventional relationship.
So, to start with, here are some things you could put into practice:
ANALYZE THE SITUATION
Before taking the bull by the horns, it would be good to realize if we are really dealing with a bull.
Whether you’re in an all-sex, no-commitment relationship with your friend or genuinely comfortable with someone you like, you need to consider what the situation is. In many cases, you may be content without having to aspire to romantic love.
TAKE INTO ACCOUNT HOW IT IS AFFECTING YOU
As we have already said, you can be happy without having to end the casual relationship you are having. And much less try to make it a compromised one.
However, if this relationship is not what you are looking for or does not complement your needs, it is important that you end it.
BE HONEST
Once you have cleared your mind, it is time for action. If you are happy, this part will be pleasant for you.
But if not, the best thing to do is to talk to the other person and clarify your point of view while mentioning what you want. You don’t need to “end the friendship,” you can just be honest.
BREAK THE CLICHE
It is important to understand that casual relationships are not the enemy. can be happily undercommitted without the need to seek to change it in the short or long term.
AVOID WHAT YOU DON’T WANT TO HAPPEN AGAIN
Otherwise, of course, you can take into account what is going wrong with your love life. That is, give rise to relationships that do not keep you satisfied.
For example:
- Agree to have sex without any commitment and indefinitely. This can lead to this kind of quasi-relationship spilling over, thus leaving her unsatisfied.
- Not making it clear what kind of relationship you are looking for from the beginning. It may not be exactly the best from the first date, but it is convenient that the person is aware of what you are looking for.
- Expect things (or, but still, people) to change. Relationship dynamics, as well as what other people find in you, are not things that we can change overnight. Not even with some process recommended by some self-help book.
- Accept a relationship without commitments and, later, regret it.Falling in love with a person who does not leave you the possibility of finding a romantic love is almost always the reason why relationships without commitment are complicated. It’s important to know what kind of relationship you’re in from the beginning.
Source: Belelu