You do not find the love of your life and all the men who come to your side hurt you, do not value you, play with your feelings and do not want to know anything more about love.
Well, we want to recommend some mental exercises that will surely put you in the position of thinking only good and positive things for your life and how you want it.
What do you need? 15 minutes of time for you.
Material: paper, pen, your favorite playlist, your favorite drink and being in a good mood.
Instructions:
– play it to that song or album that you associate with the happiest period of your life in love.
– give him a drink to whatever you’re drinking
– take a deep breath a couple of minutes closing your eyes and concentrating only on that period of your life where you were very happy.
– With eyes closed, start imagine the perfect relationship.
– Which are the characteristics that most attract you of the opposite sex?
– Now, take the paper and list everything you won’t accept never from someone (who smokes, who drinks, who is fat, etc…)
– Now, on another piece of paper, write down What are your strengths and what qualities would you add to that relationship.
– ¿What do you like the most to be with someone?
– What is what you wouldn’t stand in someone?
– Think of a actor / actress that you find similar to that ideal person you are looking for.
– Now, think, what attracts you the most of that actor/actress
– Remember with all the details, the best day you’ve ever had with one of your exes
– write it on the sheet with eyes closed.
– Open your eyes.
Congratulations! You have just completed the creative visualization. Every time you need to reinforce the idea of looking for love, do this exercise again.
How do you know if it works?
It’s very simple. From now on, in your subconscious it is already clear what makes you feel good in a relationship. Soon you will begin to transform that knowledge into a plan of action that will help you determine the perfect person. Don’t listen to advice from others, do what has always worked for you and go out and find love.
Taken from 7Boom