Can I be friends with my ex?

To be friends with your ex or not? That is the question. See the reasons why some couples who separate remain united by a friendship…

Some couples do not even speak again after finishing, because they cannot be seen even in painting; others, instead, they are able to build beautiful and lasting friendshipsbecause?

The success or failure of friendship after a love relationship depends on the reasons why people decide to stay in touchas revealed by a recent scientific study carried out by the University of Kansas (USA), the results of which were presented at the annual meeting of the American Psychological Association (APA), yes, the same as the rules for presenting papers .

The researchers discovered 4 Basic Reasons Why People Can Stay Friends Of their exes, do you identify with any of them?

  • Security: A person decides to continue the friendship with their former partner because he or she does not want to lose their ex’s emotional support, advice, or trust. When they remained friends for safety-related reasons, the resulting friendships tended to be positive.
  • Practicality: Perhaps there are financial reasons to remain friends; Or maybe if there are little ones involved, it is also practical to maintain the friendship with the former partner. People who decided to continue the friendship for practical reasons were the most successful, according to the study. These friendships lasted a long time and were considered positive (meaning that the friendship made a person feel secure and happy).
  • Courtesy: Wanting to be courteous and not hurt other people’s feelings can also be a strong reason to stay friends with your ex.
  • romantic feelings unresolved: This reason was associated with more negative feelings, but paradoxically with longer friendships. In other words, even though you’re not reaping any benefit from the friendship, it tends to stick around longer.

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What do you think? Are you friends with an ex? Write what you think in the comments of this note, and share it on your social networks! And to whom the glove falls…

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