Hunks can kill a strong relationship overnight, which is why some people recommend never confess infidelity.
Infidelity is one of the main reasons why relationships end. On the other hand, many times the causes of the horns are very personal and have nothing to do with the couple or with love.
10 reasons to never confess an infidelity
Now when the world is becoming more and more tolerant of all the types of open relationships that exist at the moment, it’s also time to talk about whether or not some hunks should confess.
And here we have some reasons for NO (if you even intend to continue with the relationship after the confession).
1. You will cause a very strong pain and for no reason
They say that eyes that do not see heart that does not feel and in this case that is totally true. If your partner does not have the slightest suspicion and the relationship is fine, why harm it and cause tears?
2. You will lose the trust of your partner
Regardless of whether you have your reasons (and explain them), your partner will perceive that you don’t respect or value them and that you don’t care about the relationship, thus completely stripping you of their trust.
3. You burden your partner with a responsibility that should only be yours
Although confessing an affair can make you feel better, your partner will feel the opposite: he may even feel guilty. If those chunks didn’t mean anything to you, carry that weight only you! Don’t share it with anyone.
4. Confessing doesn’t fix anything
If you put boys because something in the relationship is not right, do not think that confessing it will fix things. Seek the help of a therapist and/or sexologist, depending on the case, to fix your relationship problems.
5. He will charge you
It is very likely that the relationship will change forever, because from now on your partner will always have up his sleeve the ace of infidelity that you confessed to him and he will pull it out at any time. There we leave you the warning.
6. I could finish you
Maybe you think that by confessing, your partner thinks that you are a very honest person and will stay with you because of that, well no! He may think that your goal in telling him this is for the relationship to end and he would prefer to end things.
7. You already burned a cartridge
When the time comes in the relationship to make accounts of the successes and errors, you will already have the mark of having been unfaithful once, which could be added to others if it was not the only one (and that is something that you do not know if it will happen or not).
8. I could pay you with the same currency
Although you repent and your love is intact, you planted in his head the seed of doubt that will germinate thanks to your deception; your partner will perhaps give himself the opportunity to live what you lived and then simply confess it to you, waiting for your indulgence to be at hand.
9. You will destroy their self-esteem
Do you really care about your partner? You have a terrible way of showing it. If the affair is over, telling him will only destroy his self-esteem, since he will think that you no longer like him.
10. You may never find out
Why rush to confess something that may never be discovered? Can you imagine committing the perfect crime and then calling the police to say, «hey, guess what I did?» If he knows the details, they will run through his head over and over again until he drives them both crazy.
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