Many people who are in a relationship ask how to make a man miss you and look for youbut the answer could leave them speechless.
They say that «No one knows what He has, until He loses it” and it is precisely because of this premise that in couple relationships sometimes one of the members tries to make themselves strange by the other, in order to feel wanted.
That is why at Vibra we decided to consult with one of our psychologist friends, Yecid Leyva, who is a couples therapist and knows this type of dynamic in relationships in depth. What he explained to us, he left us speechless.
Human beings miss situations or events that occur in a positive way and that we want to be repeated; in relationships, if you generate positive emotions when you are with someone, you want to feel those emotions againand therefore strange, explains Yecid.
The expert warns that the problem comes when a person does things with the intention of being strange on the other, and that, from the start, is already wrong, because missing is something very personal, which can hardly be forced by another human being.
“Sometimes the other feels uncomfortable when you try so hard to make them feel good. One especially misses emotional things: when you hear beautiful things or see beautiful things, when they have details…
At that moment you are building something that seems very important to you and that becomes significant for you in life and when that happens, well that is what you are going to miss, but if you see that the other person is making an effort to do it, you you will lose the taste and there will be no more interest.”
The psychologist added.
Tips for them to miss you and look for you:
- Do not make yourself strange intentionally, because you will generate rejection.
- Generate positive emotions when you are together, but in a natural and organic way.
- Do not try too hard, just be yourself, but without overwhelming the other.
- Patience, if he misses you, he will look for you, if he doesn’t miss you, he won’t and there is nothing you can do about it.
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