We have previously explained in greater detail how it is that when we have sexual intercourse we open our energy to that other person and therefore we create a relationship on an energetic level with both the positive and negative aspects of our partner. Likewise, we mentioned the importance that our intentions to have sex are related to respect and love, since if we only use the other to vent our sexual energy, we express a low vibration that attracts energies of the same type.
So when we talk about when we fall in love we «open our hearts» to the other, this is more literal than we think. Since there are indeed ties of energy and information between you and your partner. Which feeds on their feelings, experiences, shared dreams and even plans for the future. But when the relationship ends or goes through difficult times, there is a change in this channel, since the energy that passes through it is charged with feelings of anger, sadness, and resentment. So what can we do to cut these energetic ties and move on with our lives? These are two options:
1. Visualization
Sit in a comfortable upright position and first bring your attention to your breathing until you feel your mind calm down and your thoughts stop going in all directions. If you like you can add a candle or incense to help you relax. Then, visualize this energetic loop in your body and imagine that you can pull it out of it and gently place it in front of you. It is important that while you do this, you maintain a state of peace and love, as well as the awareness that it is for your own good and the greatest good of all (including your ex-partner). To help your intention to be clearly present, you can repeat these phrases out loud or at an internal level:
“I release your energy from my energy. I send you peace, love and compassion. I appreciate the love we shared, but now it’s time to let you go. Wish you all the best».
Then imagine that you take the energetic loop at the level of your heart and cut it as if you had energetic scissors in your hands. Repeat it until you feel free of the energy of your ex-partner. Once you perceive this you can come back to yourself and say:
“I am complete within myself. I deserve to be loved for who I am. I am always connected with divine love and I feel love all around me. I know I’m never alone.»
Then evoke a white light of pure love and let it fill you completely.
2. Obsidian Egg
For women, there is the option of using an obsidian egg that allows them to work with blockages and energies throughout their energy body, but especially in the first two chakras. Obsidian is a stone that is derived from cooling volcanic lava and is a moonstone. In such a way that it is placed in the vagina at night before going to bed. Ideally it should not be uncomfortable, but just like putting in a tampon. This allows the pubococcygeus muscle to contract and exercise the entire pelvic floor, providing greater health and sexual pleasure. The next morning it is required to push gently and place the hand at the vaginal opening to receive it and prevent it from falling. Then it should be rinsed with water until the next night.
Perhaps during the first few days the egg will resist coming out easily, in which case it should not be forced, as this indicates that it is working inside you and will come out on its own when the job is done. You can use it for 3 weeks and then rest during your period and repeat this for three months. You may have vivid dreams, your intuition may sharpen, and feelings you have been holding back may surface to be acknowledged and resolved.
It is important to mention that a handmade, calibrated and authentic obsidian egg must be used, without notches or marks, since these could hurt you. In addition, it should not be used during menstruation, lactation, pregnancy, acute mental illness or when an operation has just passed, in which case 3 months must be waited. It is also recommended that you keep a log of your experience to be able to record your process and become aware of it. On the other hand, if you feel too fragile or sensitive, it is also recommended that you seek the support of a professional guide or therapist familiar with the use of the obsidian egg.
With information from Ascended Relationships and Obsidian Butterfly
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