That is the question that we commonly ask ourselves as people who live and believe in commitment, dedication and romanticism. Today’s youth is full of mixed messages, chance encounters, and lack of commitment.
Back in the 50s, the boy used to look for the girlfriend at the door of his house and take her for a milkshake. In the 1980s, the young man would pick up her girl at her aerobics class and then invite her to a bowling alley or a live concert. Currently in 2015, he sends her a WhatsApp message and they agree to meet at a nightclub.
The ambiguity is heightened and everything is so confusing that today many single women are rarely sure of themselves, they are being asked out or not and in many cases they do not know if they are the friends or girlfriends of the man they are with. coming out. There are no longer any rules or standards to conquer a person and, therefore, all hopes of recovering romance have also been left behind.
There are many cases in which the courtship arrives over time or by chance, not because the man is the one who proposes it, the women are presented as «a friend» until the rope breaks or the man feels completely attracted or in love, while most women (although many deny it), wait for days, months and years for that moment when they present her as their girlfriend and feel the commitment from the other person.
We must recover the real dates, have romantic and concrete plans with someone, without casual encounters (unbridled encounters, casual outings or texting). In this way, you will have greater possibilities of obtaining a better option when it comes to sharing your life. The greatest test of a relationship is to see how personalities are combined and to reach that result both must sit face to face to get to know each other. The same applies to already established couples, a date can have the ability to renew his romantic feelings towards her or vice versa, since they are transported back to when they were just getting to know each other, when everything was new, they had fun and were crazy in love with each other. the other.
In a few words, romantic dates work and are a lot of fun, since the conquest between men and women is a tradition that has spread throughout the world for years and we must not let it die. So, dare to take risks, invite your crush to dinner, hang out hand in hand, make them feel butterflies in their stomachs for each other, watch a movie (at the theater), plan a special day just for your wife or girlfriend (husband or boyfriend), hanging out with someone is a lot of fun, so go out, but really go out and do different things. You never know when you might fall in love, and one date might change everything.