Being creative in intimacy is essential to maintain harmony with your ideal partner. Respecting the series of values that must also base your relationship, playing with moments of pleasure, reinventing new ways to show your affection, or surprising him on a common date, can be an unforgettable adventure. Next you will learn the importance of being creative in intimacy to live ideally as a couple.
The sexologist, Roberto Soto, assures that «the lack of communication, the taboo subjects and the little creativity, that is to say, problems in intimacy in general, can trigger difficulties that go beyond the bedso little or no sexual satisfaction has currently become one of the main causes of divorce or separation.
The importance of fantasies and foreplay. Two of the indispensable factors that exist in the cultivation of intimate creativity hover in fantasy and foreplay. These elements serve as ideal alternatives to handle both the lack of understanding and communication between two people, as well as transform the level of creativity that enriches their day to day.
Back to teenage time. One of the fantasies that can resume creativity in intimacy is to return to adolescent time. Starting with a session of caresses and kisses with your clothes on, gradually increase the intensity until both of you can’t take any more desire. In addition to remembering that period full of hormones, they will be able to rekindle the passion thanks to the enormous and grandiose desire contained.
Take him off guard. Another alternative turns out to be caresses. You can opt for the genitals, directly linking your sexual organs, or also the non-genitals, where you put pressure on the rest of the erogenous points that your partner has. Also figure out how to catch him off guard in new places like watching TV in the living room, in the car, or while taking a shower. Both kinds of erotic massages, together with the surprise factor, will awaken the appeased passion.
For his part, the therapist, David Barrios, points out that there is a common basis for fantasies and foreplay: eroticism. Currently, Barrios considers that the experience of sexuality, intimacy, and eroticism has been limited based on taboos and social prejudices.
“Unfortunately, due to lack of sexual education, many couples tend to fall into tedium, into boredom, into a series of exhausting rituals that make creativity and imagination disappear. There comes a time when intimate encounters become unmotivating.”
The way to explore eroticism is based on self-knowledge and shared pleasure. Invite each other to explore each other with soft caresses, tender and passionate kisses. Take the necessary time, because with this new meeting you will achieve that creativity resumes the ideal contained in your relationship.