It’s normal when you feel like a relationship is ending or even bidding your time until you have it all figured out for what’s on the other side of that. But it is not possible.
Sure, there may be some plans or ideas that may come up, but ultimately you have to finish one phase of your life before you can start another.
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Waiting for time in an overdue relationship means that you know that you will not be together forever, you are aware that both of you are not aligned, but you are trying to control how it ends and the final result.
However, you can’t because you can only control yourself and what an ex does will always be up to them, no matter how much time or diplomacy you put into it. This week brings the energy to finally call it what it is.
Mercury in Libra will help soften any blow, but there will still be obstacles to overcome.
Just remember that post-breakup challenges are nothing compared to trying to stay in a place where you know you no longer belong.
Beginning the week of October 10-16, 2022, these four zodiac signs are at increased risk of falling out of love and ending their relationships:
1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
You will likely spend the week reeling from what your own personal Full Moon brought over the weekend. As much as you may feign surprise, be sure to take it with a dose of reality as well. You knew exactly what was going on in your relationship and you were also incredibly aware of your feelings.
It was just that you hoped you could continue, either by pretending otherwise or just dealing with the way things were. However, the point is that those feelings and the awareness that you are having cannot be something that is simply taken as the status quo and normal. Instead, they are the catalyst for change.
With Jupiter currently retrograde in your sign, you’re being asked to step up in some big ways. You may be known for being a leader and moving forward, but the truth is you are often afraid of creating change that you don’t feel like you can undo if you change your mind. Therefore, he becomes a tug of war with yourself for knowing what you do and being able to make decisions from this space.
This week, after the Aries Full Moon and the change from Mercury to Libra, the sign that rules your romantic life, there is no other place to hide. It’s also important to remember that there is no perfect time for any of this either.
Just because you have an idea in your head that at some distant point in the future it would make everything easier doesn’t make it true. Instead, it’s about acknowledging that the relationship you’re debating about ending was actually over some time ago, now it’s just about what you’re going to do with that knowledge.
2. Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
You have not been honoring your true nature by being a truth seeker recently, especially when it comes to love and relationships.
In reality, he has been biding his time in the hope that something will change. Although he can admit that he has done this recently, in truth it is probably something he has been doing for quite some time, as he has been reluctant to take action on anything because he is not sure what it will bring.
The thing to remember in love is that no matter how hard you try to take the predictable or safe path, there is no relationship that you can truly control.
This idea of making sure you are in control stems from a lack of self-confidence. Even though you love adventures and being able to embrace life’s unexpected moments, you actually need a strong root system as part of that, which is where a secure romantic relationship comes into play.
The more you can be confident in yourself, regardless of the relationship you are in, the more you can begin to make authentic decisions and choices for yourself.
This gamble on your time has literally come to an end, as you can now see that not only isn’t it working, but things aren’t changing in the direction you thought they would.
The gift is that within this space you have been able to see your own true feelings and this week that will be magnified so that you can finally take an action step. Mars has been in Gemini and will remain there until March 2023.
Mars is the planet of action and ambition, while Gemini rules your love life and committed relationship. You can’t convince yourself where you think you should be when you know where you really want to be.
Mars makes sitting still or biding your time impossible. Take back your power and trust your own feelings this week, although sometimes it causes you discomfort, that is what it takes to create peace.
3. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Neptune is currently retrograde in Pisces through early December, which means you are being given the gift of reality. Neptune is the planet that rules wonderful things like dreams, unconditional love, and romance, but it also rules fantasy and illusion.
With Neptune sitting in this area of your life since 2011 and where it will remain until 2025, it has been extremely difficult to distinguish what is real and what is just an illusion when it comes to love and relationships.
The thing is that while you need a little bit of Neptune in your life to have some magic and love, you also need to be able to see things clearly.
When Neptune is retrograde it helps you take off the rose colored glasses you have been wearing so you can see the truth of the relationship and the person you are with.
For you this week, when Neptune collides with Mars in Gemini, it may not be the result you wanted, but it will be the one you need. As much as you want that amazing love, you can’t make it into something that just isn’t what it inherently is.
Instead of looking for ways to change your partner or relationship, try to accept that it is what it is. This leaves the decision ultimately up to you.
Love is not a constant battle of trying to make the other person appear different, change, or be someone they just aren’t.
Instead, it is about how its edges align with their betterment and the benefit of their lives. Giving this up also requires you to learn that love is not a fight or a war. It is something that is always given freely and openly. This week don’t be afraid to let it go because you may be creating space for something much better.
4. Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
You may want the fairy tale, but first, you have to deal with reality. Right now, there are blocks around you in your life that are preventing you from having the relationship you dream of.
Uranus in Taurus this week continues its ongoing climax with Saturn in Aquarius, highlighting the two areas of your life that are and will continue to be in transformation. Taurus energy rules your romantic life while Aquarius is your home and family.
This week is the time to take an honest look at these areas of your life to see where and how they are keeping you from entering the romantic relationship you desire.
There has already been a lot of change in this area of your life as you have started to have better boundaries and stand up for yourself and the truth of who you are. But Scorpio there is still more. If you are still dwelling on the past or if you are still waiting for that fantasy to come true, then you are not really accepting reality or your future.
Because this energy hits your home and relationship sector or a relationship is ending or there will be a life situation that will allow you to have more space in your life.
If you want things to change, then you must be the one to change them because you simply want or expect them to achieve what you are seeking to manifest.
This week will help you to show yourself those situations and people that you have still been allowing to occupy a space in your life, even if they are not part of the life you want to create.
Instead of getting frustrated or feeling like you’re being restricted, see it for the breakthrough that it is.