How to find your astrological purpose in life, looking at what you can’t have

As we get older, there are certain life lessons we come to adopt: if you don’t say please and thank you, you’re rude, and if you follow a person on the street, you’ll end up getting some words that we can’t post on this site.

But what life lesson drives you as a sign and how to understand that sign? Maybe you don’t have a motto, yet, that you live by.

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In his book, Untaught Truths of Adulthood, author Alexander JA Cortes wrote 303 life lessons that ALL of us can learn from.

From paying off your student loans before they accumulate to all the math you learned in high school is useless, Cortes touched on just about every life lesson we can learn along our journeys around the sun.

Maybe you already have a life lesson that you think drives your sign. If not, be prepared to connect with a life lesson that may come too close to home.

It’s important to remember that you can’t really have it all in life, but you can make the most of what you have through trial and error.

Learn from your mistakes and failures. Be the change that drives your passions.

Here’s how to explore finding your life purpose by your zodiac sign, according to astrology:

ARIES (March 21 to April 19)

Aries, «Competition is only honestly competitive when it comes to your life or your reputation. Anything else is disguise.» You know that you can be too competitive and live to run through life. But what are you really looking to be the first to enter?

If it’s your own life, then do it. If you’re trying to be first in other people’s lives, forget it. Only you can leave yourself behind. Stay active, get out there and try not to outrun the person next to you. Instead, try to run faster than the day before.

TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)

Taurus, your life lesson is: «Wealth is awakening whenever you want. Happiness is being anxious to wake up when you go to bed«. Don’t let money make your world go round.

There is much more to life than material objects.

Taurus, you actually have two life mottos: the other is «Money does NOT equal happiness.»

While receiving gifts and having a job that generates that cash flow can be beneficial, it’s not the end at all. In fact, you would be happier without money, surrounded by the people you love.

GEMINI (May 21 to June 20)

Gemini, «A sense of humor will keep you young,» and that’s the truth. You already have the social skills, you know you are an expert communicator.

But, when things start to get too fun, you go over to the serious side. Let your people skills guide you and don’t be afraid to crack a few jokes here and there.

The sense of humor will keep you young. You may develop some fine lines, but that’s the only type of wrinkles you want to have when you’re older.

CANCER (from June 21 to July 22)

Cancer, you should live by the motto: «When someone is being self-destructive, don’t try to stop them. It’s contagious«.

This motto is a bit counterintuitive because Cancer, you are self destructive.

Don’t let yourself feel so insecure that others around you begin to doubt themselves and their relationship with you.

your vibe attract your tribe, so don’t let your tribe be full of insecure and self-critical people competing with each other.

Love for who you are and what you have above all.

LEO (July 23 – August 22)

Leo, your life lesson is simple: «people are lazyYes, you’re lazy. It’s okay to be lazy to the extreme; we all wish we could have those days where we stay in bed all day, not caring about the outside world.

But you tend to do that too often. Get outside and enjoy the rays. Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone! In case of doubt, call your friends and invite them to go out with you.

VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)

Virgo, the life lesson you must live with is: «Those who never go on vacation will never be satisfied with their work.»

You are all work and no play attitude makes it difficult for you to let go. With summer on the horizon, remember that life is too short to spend it anywhere but in the sun.

Don’t be afraid to let go this year and stop being so hard on yourself. Go have a beer on the beach somewhere (and don’t forget to bring a dumpster).

LIBRA (September 23 to October 22)

Libra, «Don’t waste time explaining yourself to people who don’t understand the context.» People will question your peaceful nature.

If someone bombards you with questions related to why you are the way you are, then they haven’t really gotten to know you yet. It’s okay to walk away from confrontation and you know it.

This puts you one step ahead of the game.

SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)

Scorpio, your life lesson to live by is: «Don’t choose to do anything you hate, regardless of the benefits of doing it«.

You love to experience life to the fullest and while this can be a positive trait, you have to be careful not to do something just because it’s «the right thing to do».

Stick to the passions that drive you and make you happy. do nothing because you feel compelled to.

SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)

Sagittarius, «When in doubt, stay calm«, is the life lesson of the day. You know that you take on more than you can handle to please everyone around you.

Stop juggling the world in your hands and speed down. You know it can be difficult to just breathe and see what the next day brings, but your impatient nature can make it difficult.

Relax, calm down, everything will be fine.

CAPRICORN (December 22 to January 19)

Capricorn, «You become the people you spend the most energy with«, is your life lesson.

you are an individual family and friends oriented. You love being around those you treasure the most.

But remember that you should spend most of your time with yourself. Take a step back from family drama and pamper yourself.

Surround yourself with your positive energy and the rest follows.

AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)

Aquarius, the life lesson you need to hear is: «The only real knowledge learned by experience and tested by practice«.

You tend to overanalyze almost anything. Although you are an excellent thinker and problem solver, remember that Not all knowledge can be learned from a textbook.

You weren’t born with all the knowledge in the universe either.. On your next trip around the sun, Learn from your daily experiences and from the people around you.

PISCES (February 19 – March 20)

Pisces, your overconfident nature makes the life lesson, «People who lie to themselves will lie to you«, is your perfect match. You let someone in too fast.

You can be too trusting and that is why you need to look for the genuine side of a person before telling them your deepest and darkest secrets. If they can’t be true to themselves, they can’t be true to you either.