Take a look at the descriptions below and ask yourself what kind of relationship you are in and what kind of relationship you would like to be in.
Remember, some people can’t or won’t do the work necessary to get to the next level. Are you willing to do whatever it takes to have the relationship of your dreams?
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These are the 3 different types of relations and what you need to know about yours:
1. Traditional relationships
This is the most familiar dynamic found in traditional marriages and relationships. The focus is on shared interests and values more than personal growth.
In traditional relationships, no person has done the psychological or spiritual work necessary to bond with themselves or with others. This means that the couple connects on a personality level rather than on an emotional and spiritual level.
When two people relate from the level of the personality or the «I», the individual’s focus remains on himself and not on the other.
Each person is primarily focused on meeting their own needs, which prevents the «we» of the relationship from forming.
As a result, these relationships often become stagnant and power struggles occur frequently.
To stay together, couples in traditional relationships avoid looking at key issues, pretending they don’t exist.
Many couples feel safe and secure in a traditional relationship.
Is all that always want or need and can stay on this level forever.
These couples will not naturally progress to the next two levels of relationship.
Traditional relationships end when one of the partners embarks on their psycho-spiritual journey and it becomes impossible to continue growing while staying in the relationship.
2. Conscious Relationships
When the soulmates come together, come together in one conscious relationship.
The soulmates they are those that are related from the level of the soul. Although many are looking for a soulmate, the requirement for this type of relationship is that both people must have experience on a psychological and spiritual level before coming together to relate «soul to soul» in a commitment that works for both.
In mindful relationships, attention is focused in emotional and spiritual growth both as individuals and as a couple.
Those in conscious relationships are involved in learning lessons.
Its goal is to transcend the physical and emotional levels to the spiritual plane.
As they actively work through problems together, conscientious couples they are increasingly able to rely on and trust each other to create the «we» of the relationship.
One of the great challenges of mindful relationships is that they are making the transition from a me-based relationship to an we-based relationship as they learn not only to work on their own individual problems, but also as they learn to apply what they learn the relationship as a whole.
While this is happening, power struggles occur.
Although they are deep and conscious relationships, don’t necessarily last forever. They can end when both parties can no longer grow together or when one person fails to meet the essential needs of the other.
The fact that people are conscious couples it does not mean that they can automatically meet the other person’s requirements. Reaching the level of conscious association is a significant achievement and can lead to a nurturing and lasting relationship.
3. Transcendent relationships
Not everyone wants to do the work to get to this third.
Transcendent partners love each other unconditionally. They are «keepers of the souls of others».
Because the transcendent partners they have mastered the art of taking personal responsibility, they generate their identity, happiness and emotional stability from within and there is no fear of losing themselves in the relationship.
With such a strong sense of their individual self, transcendent partners can give themselves completely to the «we» of the relationship, forming a union where the individual is not lost and the whole is profoundly greater than the sum of its parts.
Skilled in unconditional acceptance, power struggles rarely happen.
Transcendent couples support each other in pursuit of their dreams. They live in truth and can share anything without fear of shame or guilt.
Transcendent Partners relate on a spiritual level and have evolved beyond the need to work on the relationship.
Both parties are not guided by external forces but internal ones and by the other. Knowing that what they have together is enoughtranscendent couples are happy and can commit to each other for life.
A Transcendent Association focuses on gratitude, retribution, and satisfying work.
There are few models in our society for this type of partnership. Conscious couples can evolve and become a transcendent partnership when both people do their individual work.
Remember, you have not failed if you achieve a traditional or conscious relationship.
A Transcendent Association It is not, nor should it be, for everyone.