We have all had a best friend, but when we have a best friend we realize that he is very different in many aspects and we even believe that he is the best in the world and here we are going to tell you why.
Surely you have heard that friendship between a man and a woman is impossible and surely whoever has said this is because they have not had the opportunity to have a genuine friendship with a person of the opposite sex. You don’t know what you’re missing!
Having a male friend will give you the freedom to be who you really are. He doesn’t care what you’re wearing, or if you got a horrible hairdo to go out. He is a man and he is your friend, he will not notice that. He only cares about having fun with you and having a good time with friends.
1. He is always ready for anything
By whatever I mean whatever plan comes up at the time. It’s 5 in the afternoon, you’re bored at home and you know that if you send him a text message with the phrase «Should we do something today?», in less than an hour he will be at your house ready to have a good time with you.
2. He will always be honest
Men are simpler, and they don’t complicate their lives. Women are always trying to look good, or not hurt the feelings of others. It’s not that they don’t, just that when it comes to being honest, they’ll tell you like it is.
It can be a little cruel at times, but the truth is that we all need a little honesty from time to time, and what better way to get it from your best friend.
3. It will help you when you have to do heavy work
Men are, by nature, stronger, and that is a great advantage. Do you have to move house? Do you need to paint your room? In any job that requires the strength of a man, he will be there to help you, and he will also make things a thousand times more fun.
4. His hugs are the best
As we already mentioned, men are strong, so when you need a hug that shakes you to the core, you know that only with him you will get it. When you feel down, his «bear hugs» will lift your spirits, or at least make you forget your sadness because they will leave your whole body sore.
5. He will never judge you for how you look
If you don’t feel like getting ready to go out, or have been sick, you don’t have to worry. He will never notice if you wear the same clothes as three days ago, or if you haven’t washed your hair in a week. One good thing about men is that they are not very observant, and even if they were, your best friend will never judge you for your appearance.
6. It is your best help in romantic dilemmas
What will help you understand your boyfriend more than another man’s mind? His opinion will help you a lot when you have an argument with your lover. And just as he will help you understand the world of boys a little better, you will also be of great help to him when he tries to enter the world of a girl.
7. You can talk to him about anything
There are topics that you would be embarrassed to talk about with any other man, and that women will not understand, so he is the one to talk about those topics. He will not mock or judge you, on the contrary he will give you his point of view.
Obviously he will also come to you when he needs to talk about certain things that he dares not talk to anyone else. That’s what friendship is supposed to be about, right?
8. He is faithful
Men have a simple personality, and although it can be exasperating at times, most of the time it is a great advantage. He will rarely care about gossip, so forget about fights. How many times have you walked away from a friend due to misunderstandings?
He will be by your side despite the problems you may face, so: Long live friends!
Taken from Ok Chicas written by Julia Aguilar