We tell you how to find out if that older person who drives you crazy really loves you or is only with you to feel younger.
If you are dating someone much older than you -and if you are not, keep reading because it may happen to you one day-, have you asked yourself, why is he with you? We always say that love has no age, that «40 and 20, what matters is love and not what people say», but, What if that special someone is using your youth just to feel younger?
It is true that from a biological point of view men tend to look at younger women because they are more fertile than the older ones, but that is a justification that does not make sense in a civilized society like today… right? Not even that we were rabbits that we can’t control our instincts!
Although many loves between people with a great age difference turn out to be true, we also know that many times that is not the case, and what there is is a kind of transaction: you give me comforts and I give you my youth. In those cases, where is the love? And the respect? What if one of the two parts of the couple does not know that they are using it?
So that you get out of doubt, we give you some warning signs -not at all scientific- that indicate that that older person only loves you because of your age…
– It was ordered to put a little ring in one ear and is growing the hair.
– He never shares anything of his private life with you and his conversation towards you is limited to praise your beauty and youth.
– When you complain about something you don’t like, shake your head with your handas you would with a small child.
– Go with one photocopy of your ID in your wallet and shows it to everyone, even in front of you.
– When he introduces you it doesn’t say your namebut «I present to you my young girlfriend».
– Every time you ask him something he answers you «When you grow up I’ll explain it to you».
– Make a hell of a fuss if by chance he sees you a gray hair or a wrinkle.
– Pays you any plastic surgery that occurs to you, so you stay like a trout.
– It takes you like a trophy to all your social gatherings, except the ones with your family.
– He never tires of telling everyone the exact number of years, months, days and hours that takes you in age.
If you identify with more than three of these situationsBeware, they may be using you because of your youth.