If you don’t have children yet, take the opportunity to do these things as a couple, because later it will be more difficult for you!
Children change our lives, there is no doubt about that. But this change does not occur only on a personal level, it also affects the couple and the way in which its members relate to each other.
DIn fact, many people, instead of getting closer, lose the connection and the magic that they used to have before the arrival of the new life at home.
So what should we do? Enjoy the couple before the arrival of the children!
It is not that the arrival of the children ends the relationship, not at all, but if you are planning to order a baby, make sure you do this before…
backpacking: Traveling with kids is always a hassle, but going backpacking with them is almost an act of faith.
Therefore, do it with your partner before bringing them into the world, it is an experience that they will never forget; then, when the children grow up, you can do it with them.
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Throw house parties: After you get pregnant all the social gatherings you have in your house will revolve around your children.
First you will start with Baby Shower, then baptisms, piñatas, first communions, quinces…
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To camp: Just like going backpacking, sleeping under a starry sky hugging your loved one is a delicious plan, but with babies, crazy! (although there are brave people who do it).
Our advice: do it before having children.
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Go partying until dawn: Believe us, once you have children you won’t be able to wake up partying so easily.
Nothing is like before, when the mothers took care of the Chinese for free, no, now it’s time to pay for the babysitter (or pay the mother-in-law).
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Make love all over the house: If you are one of those who has not salted the sofa, the dining room, the living room, the kitchen, the bathroom, rather, every corner of your house, open these places before having children, when they arrive you will have to lock them up!
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Get drunk: When they have a child they won’t be able to have a drink at the same time (unless someone takes care of the offspring), so it’s something they should do as a couple, it will be a lot of fun!
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Sleep: Just as you have to party and get drunk with your partner before the children arrive, you also have to sleep curled up, believe us, the lack of intertwined sleep is underestimated.
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Indulge: When they have children, everything that enters the family coffers will be spent on them, so while they are just a couple, give each other treats such as elegant dinners, designer clothes, jewelry, etc.
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Save money: A child is, in itself, a luxury, since the maintenance costs are enormous (not counting those of «spoilage»), so take the opportunity to save money!
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