Just as we like compliments, they need your comforting voice to tell them how good they look and how handsome they are.
Sometimes they will go out of their way to make you feel like the happiest and most beautiful woman in the world, but why not return the favor? After all he is your boyfriend, you love him and you want him to be happy, right? Then it’s time to flatter him (even if it means feeding his ego) so that after a while he doesn’t start complaining.
“No one has made me laugh as much as you”. Boys give a lot of weight to their sense of humor and how funny they can be; It may not be the most important thing for you (and it shouldn’t be) but they really appreciate the fact that you can laugh at what he says, especially at his bad jokes. In addition, both win because they always notice and easily fall in love with a woman’s laugh.
“What good advice do you give me”. They don’t know how to give advice, they’re even lousy at solving problems, especially when it’s «girl stuff» or there are tears involved, but if they went out of their way to try to help you (even if their advice didn’t help), you should appreciate it. and praise him for doing it. Saying thank you is nice but expressing how much it helped you is even better.
«It is very big». This compliment practically speaks for itself and it is more than obvious that any man can appreciate it. Even those guys who were truly well endowed feel better when they hear those words and, if you have been with your lover for a long time and you NEVER told him, you could apply by telling him that you will surely never get used to his large size.
«I love your arms». You may ask, why the arms? why not the legs or the abdomen? Easy, men really like to show off their arms constantly, especially if you go to the gym and like to work your body. Try to praise her work, effort and dedication but at the same time, focus on her body and how much you like it.
“You look great in that shirt/pants/jacket/whatever”. Men don’t give much importance to her clothes but they are fascinated when you flatter them about her, do you know why? Because, believe it or not, they also make an effort to look good for you from time to time.
«You turn me on so much.» One thing must be made clear; any phrase, compliment or word that has to do with sex is enough to make him feel like the luckiest man in the universe. Let him know that he knows how to use his hands down there, how he moves his tongue and even how long he lasts during sex.
«You’re so good at…». Even if he is the most cultured guy you know (and he knows it), he will want to know that you appreciate his qualities and attributes. Whether he plays the guitar, cooks, plays soccer or is a good mathematician, it doesn’t matter, the point is to tell him with compliments how good he is at what he does.
“I feel safe with you”. No matter how independent you are, your guy wants to know what makes you feel safe, secure, and happy, even if it’s just to kill the bugs in the room.
Related note: 6 triggers of low male self-esteem, here.
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