An expert communication psychologist gave us 5 tips to end a fight instantly.
Fights are the daily bread for some couples, who spend more time fighting than cuddling. How to avoid them? Maybe the key is simply not to fight, but that’s not so easy when we get used to having the gloves on. We consulted the psychologist André Didyme-Dome, and he gave us these tips:
1. Sex
This always works, but you have to be careful not to go overboard, as there are people who love wild sex as a way to «fix» themselves again. It is better to use it to prevent than to reconcile.
2. Gifts
Which are proportional to the reason for the fight. Small problems, chocolates and dolls, big problems, tickets for the game. Keep their favorites hidden to take them out at the right time.
3. Accept guilt
So we know inside ourselves that we are not responsible for the fight, is it worth following? Accept that it was your fault, even if it isn’t, and that’s it.
4. Exhibitionism
This only works when a woman wants to end the argument. Take off your shirt, undress and the man will forget everything.
5. Declaration of love
Take the floor and cut the argument short by telling him how much you love him and how willing you are to do anything to make him happy. Be careful, because the answer can be unpredictable.
Try these ways to instantly end a fight and let us know if it worked for you.