We don’t want to see our friendships sour, and we get little hints here and there that they may be fading, and yet we still hold out hope that this degeneration isn’t really happening.
And then, it happens, and we start to really rethink our friendships. We have a sample of the complete ‘sour’ we suspected. The truth is that friendships… like romances… are made of people, and people have flaws.
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So what’s going on for three zodiac signs to reconsider their friendships during Mercury in Libra, beginning September 23, 2022?
During Mercury retrograde in Libra, we may feel a bit more analytical than usual about relationships.
This is because we are in the middle of a transit called Mercury in Libra.
What this means for us is that if we feel that there is something wrong in our lives, we don’t ignore it or brush it aside; we want to analyze the reasons why things are not going well.
While this day may make us realize that we have to let go of someone in our life, we also know that this day has taken a long time.
Toxic friends haven’t always been toxic; if they were, they would not be in our lives. So, something went wrong for them, somewhere along the way.
This is part of our analysis. We put two and two together and find a reason why this person has become such a poisonous force in our lives, and when we realize that this is not going to stop…we take action.
And we do it to save ourselves more pain. Mercury in Libra allows us to see why we need to let this person go, as well as allowing us to see very clearly (and specifically) how he can no longer be a part of our lives.
These are the three zodiac signs that reframe their friendships during Mercury retrograde in Libra from September 23, 2022:
1. Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
You are self-protective by nature, and sometimes too much so. You are often the person who ends a friendship on a whim; if you notice the smallest of wrong actions on the friend’s part, you have very little trouble erasing them from your life permanently.
While your actions may seem a bit rash or unfair, you can still separate the bad from the really bad, and today, you’ll absolutely be able to identify someone in your life who can claim the Toxic Award.
There is someone in your life that you need to get rid of; you know it, they don’t know it, and if they waste another moment of your life, it will be your fault. During Mercury in Libra, you are able to pick this up very quickly, and so, once again, your ability to get rid of people will come into effect.
2. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
After a lot of thought, you’ve realized that one of your friends is what we call a ‘fair weather friend’, which means he’s only there when he needs you. There have been times recently when you’ve really needed them; you gave this person a lot and it makes you angry when he suddenly has no place for you, or he completely ignores you, like he is doing now.
Mercury in Libra brings out your analytical nature and will make you realize that this person isn’t worth all the heart and soul you’re giving them, because in the long run… they’re just using you for company.
Come to think of it, the conversations I’ve had with this friend have only been about their lives and rarely about yours. You are starting to see this friend as a user, a toxic individual who could also be a narcissist. It’s time to let them go.
3. Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
There are very few friendships that haven’t been ‘tested’ for toxicity, as you are practically intolerant of poisonous people and have been for years. You do not feel that you are here on Earth to waste your time, or to give too much of your precious time to people who cannot appreciate your desire for honesty, truth and peace.
During the transit of Mercury in Libra, you will know exactly who should go, as you have known for a long time.
You have a friend that you have been reconsidering; They’re not really friends, are they? You’ve tried your best to see past his flaws, but this person does the one thing you can’t stand: he refuses to grow up. This drives you crazy and also makes you feel like you need to get away from them.
You will walk away from the friendship, calmly and without many explanations. You no longer have room in your life for babies and you are definitely not the babysitter.